I don't think the community overall is toxic. Sure, once every few days I run into an abusive or leeching player. The vast majority of people are nice and chill enough.
It really just depends on what you consider toxic. If you have an opinion and somebody disagrees with you, that's not indicative of toxicity. That just means you can't handle your opinions being criticized. Someone using a strong statement with you like "A topic like this isn't important enough to complain about because of X, Y, and Z", that's not toxicity either as long as they aren't trying to ridicule or demean you.
It may seem toxic if you are a devout, pious, non-swearing extreme-Christian who above all believes people should be of the upmost proper moral character everywhere they go. This is just how normal people talk. If you can take this type of language in a verbal conversation, you should be able to take it in written form, without losing your mind and shouting that you've been victimized.
