I agree with the other poster, really. I don't know if you hang out in Balmung's NN (I never saw you in there), but I ended up leaving in under a month after joining solely because I wanted to help people largely because some of the other mentors were just so obnoxious and it was rubbing off on me. NN was rife with petty personal drama and a couple of the mentors in particular tended to be somewhat combative and condescending to sprouts, flowers, and other mentors alike over even the most innocuous questions. Mentoring isn't just about game experience and is very much about temperament, but right now there's really nothing in place to even take a stab at ensuring mentors are not just knowledgeable, but patient and respectful.
