Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

Are there anyone in Kujata that would like to EB just for glamour? I'm already attached irl if that's a game changer for you.

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Quote Originally Posted by WarzonePrez View Post
Well, I'm over 40 (42) and usually spend the time I'm away from home monitoring the forums. Am I the only 40+ on the forums actively trying to use this thread as a means to connect with another player? Probably.

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Originally Posted by Dagget

Definitely not the only one..;)

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Yeah, You aren't alone. I am hoping to find someone on Balmung about my age to talk to and hang out with. I like the friends I have but some are a bit younger so sometimes, we don't connect.

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Originally Posted by Afyde

Yeah, You aren't alone. I am hoping to find someone on Balmung about my age to talk to and hang out with. I like the friends I have but some are a bit younger so sometimes, we don't connect.

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Looks like your old discord (from last summer) no longer works

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Originally Posted by Dagget

Looks like your old discord (from last summer) no longer works

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I don't think I know you.The last time I posted my Discord. I was stalked, harassed and bothered by people

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Originally Posted by jayo

If your looking for someone to play with I'm available I'm not a very high level at the moment though and I'm 36 this year if age is of concern

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Thanks for reaching out to me, I can be reached in Balmung, my name is to the left.

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Originally Posted by Mistyregions

Misty Regions
Server: Brynhildr
Willing to transfer? Nope
Personal Interests: Poking large animals with sharp teeth with a stick, getting pumped up on music, and drinking ELECTROLYTES! In real life I work, play with my dog, and attempt to handle all my responsibilities while remaining as lazy as possible. I LOVE one liners and dad jokes.
Play schedule: 8am-4pm EST Monday-Friday I can adjust play times to later in the nights 10pm- 2am if we getting super pumped about it.
What kind of gamer are you: Semi hard core. I enjoy the community part of it and get my DOPE-amine rush from kicking ass in raids and helping people defeat insecurity. Very important to note, I can go a long time without saying anything, I am not bored, I just enjoy doing activities together without the pressure to constantly communicate.
Character Gender: Female , Male in real life.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not really, just have a dirty sense of humor and enjoy off kilter jokes.
Character Race: Roe
Preferred Race: open minded
Main class?: SAM
Dislikes: pettiness, neediness ( serious neediness not humor driven ones ) being negative, inability to learn and adapt. Not taking responsibility for yourself and success.
Goals for the game: Poke bigger and even badder enemies with a stick, help my FC get to the top, help people become the best they ever was.
Goals for the marriage union: copious usage of the words: Dope, Bro, chicks, Dude, Can't even. Poke and hit things with sticks, get pumped up with music we send eachother, hit other people with sticks, help others poke things with sticks. Cruise around in our sick new marriage mounts, progress together, when waiting for a Q people watch in Limsa and judge them on discord. Help my and hopefully your new FC be the successful. Together we Rise.

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Just reposting for shyts and giggles

Server: Faerie
Willing to transfer? Not really but maybe?
Personal Interests: Playing Ffxiv and various other games. Ps4 +Switch
Play schedule: At night, afterwork and when my son goes to sleep. Usually 10pm-1amEastern Time
What kind of gamer are you: Committed to Ffxiv but will play other games in downtime
Character Gender: F in game / F in irl
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes for picture purposes, would prefer M irl.
Character Race: Miquo’te will be switching to Bunny in expansion
Preferred Race: Elzen, but really anything but Lala
Main class?: AST, working on DRK and will play Dancer
Dislikes: ERP and sexual comments. I’m not here for that, just looking to make a good friend to marry and have fun inside jokes. Really just looking for a legit friend haha
Goals for the game: Completing the game 100% and working on crafting and gathering
Goals for the marriage union: Just to have fun with someone, I’m in a relationship irl so I want to be able to just be my weird self and play ffxiv. Maybe someone who can teach me how to tank because I suck lol
Etc: I spend most of my time either in limsa waiting on que times or at my personal house gardening. Though I’m looking for a friend I can be a bit of a flirt. I’m usually alone and will change my outfit often. Discord is always open and I can message back when I’m working mostly. I’m open to more then friendship just don’t expect a full relationship or erp stuff because no. That’s gross.
My Discord is Akiko Katsumi #5337

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Originally Posted by THATONELADYYY

Server: Faerie
Willing to transfer? Not really but maybe?
Personal Interests: Playing Ffxiv and various other games. Ps4 +Switch
Play schedule: At night, afterwork and when my son goes to sleep. Usually 10pm-1amEastern Time
What kind of gamer are you: Committed to Ffxiv but will play other games in downtime
Character Gender: F in game / F in irl
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes for picture purposes, would prefer M irl.
Character Race: Miquo’te will be switching to Bunny in expansion
Preferred Race: Elzen, but really anything but Lala
Main class?: AST, working on DRK and will play Dancer
Dislikes: ERP and sexual comments. I’m not here for that, just looking to make a good friend to marry and have fun inside jokes. Really just looking for a legit friend haha
Goals for the game: Completing the game 100% and working on crafting and gathering
Goals for the marriage union: Just to have fun with someone, I’m in a relationship irl so I want to be able to just be my weird self and play ffxiv. Maybe someone who can teach me how to tank because I suck lol
Etc: I spend most of my time either in limsa waiting on que times or at my personal house gardening. Though I’m looking for a friend I can be a bit of a flirt. I’m usually alone and will change my outfit often. Discord is always open and I can message back when I’m working mostly. I’m open to more then friendship just don’t expect a full relationship or erp stuff because no. That’s gross.
My Discord is AkikoKatsumi#5337

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Your discord doesn't seem to come up for me. I saw your post and I'd like to see if you would be friends. My discord is 347SPECTRE#6521

Name: Morrigan Tepesh
Server: Famfrit (Primal)
Willing to transfer? No
Personal Interests: music, dance, being with my dogs
Play schedule: weekdays morning/ late afternoon-evening weekends depends sometimes all weekend sometimes interments
What kind of gamer are you: casual attitude but love to do extremes and raids. Like to push myself and my ability
Character Gender: Male Hyur sometimes female au ra and possibly Viera......undecided...
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?i like guys sooo...
Preferred Race:
Main class?: MCH/BLM/WHM might change to dancer in expansion
Dislikes: salty peeps/ I’m not down with dragging ppl, calling them out to make them look/feel bad. We all had to learn at some point and some ppl don’t have show them the ropes.
Goals for the game: help where I can, try to beat my best and then beat that
Etc: discord: morrigan cole tepesh#8859

Eh why not I'll bite
Server: Faerie
Willing to transfer? The possibility exists but I'll need a good reason to (Aether only)
Personal Interests: Gaming, computers, audio books, LARP combat.
Play schedule: Depends but mostly after 5:30 EST/EDT
What kind of gamer are you:Midcore
Character Gender:Female In-game/G.I.R.L. (Guy in real life)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Honestly, I have a preference towards women.
Character Race:Miqo'te
Preferred Race:Miqo'te, Au Ra, Midlander Hyur, Viera
Main class?: I AM A TANK!!! :3
Dislikes: Dishonesty, people that don't get straight to the point, ghosting.
Goals for the game: Have fun, enjoy the MSQ and complete some Savage raids when I can
Goals for the marriage union: Someone to play the game with on a regular basis and a good friend.
Etc: You can contact me via discord @347SPECTRE#6521 (Yes I know it's edgelord)

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Server: Famfrit
Willing to transfer? Yes
Personal Interests: Reading, Non-Fiction, Intellectual Discussions, Anime, Music (Playing/Listening), Science, Meditation, Erotica, Exercise, Physical Fitness
Play schedule: Almost every day, in the evening (EST)
What kind of gamer are you: Like to achieve goals, can get hyper focused at times, but still really like to have fun and laugh
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Definitely (Looking for fem/fem :P)
Character Race: N/A
Preferred Race: N/A
Main class?: N/A
Dislikes: Lack of communication (too silent/over communication)
Goals for the game: Leveling up, learning mechanics, housing, finally learning crafting (ugh lol)
Goals for the marriage union: Partnership, a bond, support, trust, fun!!
Etc: My girl, my girl, my girl, talkin about, my girllll -- my girl! oooo oooo lol
Discord: HoloChild#9316

Nice to see this still going.
Has anyone found a couple yet? :eek:

Some have posted saying they have. It's sort of hit and miss. I was lucky to find my partner randomly in game. Although I have met some wonderful friends from here spread throughout the data centers though. :)

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Originally Posted by Jybril

Nice to see this still going.
Has anyone found a couple yet? :eek:

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Found mine almost 2 and half years ago on this thread ^^ we've been through good and bad times, but we're together, planning our future :)

Server: Primal - Lamia
Willing to transfer? No
Personal Interests: Outside of gaming, music... lots of music. I'll play piano for you!
Play schedule: Time of day varies, I play a lot of piano... but no Tuesdays, usually.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual, would like to do more.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Eh, only somewhat, I won't care at all if I just don't know.
Character Race: Hyur
Preferred Race: Miqo'te
Main class?: WHM
Dislikes: People that reply with one word all the time.
Goals for the game: Definitely looking for someone to get that missing immersion. Of course, I prefer to discuss those goals with said person. We'll take them together.
Goals for the marriage union: Same as above^
Etc: Very easy to talk to. Send me a /tell or a letter in the mail. Character is Iesu Shinnokami

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Originally Posted by Jybril

Nice to see this still going.
Has anyone found a couple yet? :eek:

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I have not. Unfortunately, my luck has been absurdly bad thus far. :(

Difficult for me since I am from JP data server. :s

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Originally Posted by Jybril

Nice to see this still going.
Has anyone found a couple yet? :eek:

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Yes! : D

I met my partner back in October and I EB'd him in November. We've become a lot more than that since, and are planning to meet up next year irl. (TBH neither of us expected that to happen, lol. We legit just wanted to have a cool friend to hang with in game.)

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Originally Posted by Jybril

Nice to see this still going.
Has anyone found a couple yet? :eek:

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I did but less than month later they transferred to another datacenter.

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Originally Posted by AnnaRosa

Character: NA

Server: Louisouix

Willing to transfer? Only if I can find a large plot in that destination.

Personal Interests: NA

Play schedule: three days a week between 2-3 to 5-6 p.m. London time it can vary depending on the game content we will be making, also don't mind streaming.

What kind of gamer are you: casual but willing to learn hardcore content

Character Gender: Female and Female irl

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I can care a lot.

Character Race: Viera

Preferred Race: in my case would most likely get easily in touch with players that would choose for their mains Hrothgar, Roes, Hyur but the ones with non teenage appearance, Au Ra and Elezen.

Main class?: On this character will main dancer.

Dislikes: pixel sensitivity in a extreme context that a player can not discern a non offensive joke towards their character pixels apart of them as person/player, pointless drama over useless subjects, players who lack any sense of humor, players who are affected by other couples displaying affection either in game or out of game.

Goals for the game: Enjoy the game content and have fun

Goals for the friendship union: Not looking into bizarre aka creepy ERP just a friend to do game content, have fun and belly laugh hard.
Since I am married irl must be someone willing to have fun just in game also not take me serious when do not have filter while do the gossip.
Must also be a player over 40 yo who is able of develop emotion such as any kind of fear also must not make his way of living based on scandals.
If we get to know each other in real life better if we don't well it was a chance of a good friendship we lose but always worth the try.

Etc: you can find me in game via this character or private message over this forum not sure if possible.

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Bump and corrected

I'm still looking for someone in Balmung. Really, I just want the rewards for the platinum package. That's all.

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Originally Posted by hynaku

I did but less than month later they transferred to another datacenter.

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I feel your pain. :(

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Originally Posted by EmeraldDawn

Server: Exodus
Willing to transfer? totally, My FC is nice but I feel very lonely in this world and my FC is nice but there’s not many people enlisted.
Personal Interests: Tinker Bell, Pegasus, RP, A Stage Reborn, Animated and Romance films,
Play schedule: Basically everyday times varies busy usually evenings from 8-dawn lol. Just kidding. 8-11ish. I usually hop on during the day but not for long.
What kind of gamer are you: I’m looking to really immerse myself in the world of FF14 with its lore and stuff. :)
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No. I’m actually looking for a best friend, so gender is not an issue (in game or irl) i’m an not disclosing my gender so if that is a deal breaker please keep moving :)
Character Race: Elezen :)
Preferred Race: doesn’t matter.
Main class?: SCH
Dislikes: Rage, drama, rude people (im into inside jokes but not into attacking people or anything malicious)
Goals for the game: Have a best friend and or EB and do everything there is and more in Eorzea, sight see, enjoy the sun set, watch A Stage Reborn. lol. Do fun stuff and have fun doing them.
Etc: Sorry if this is a deal breaker but i’m not looking to voice chat or meet offline, no snap chat either lol. i’m strictly looking for in game fun and i’d like to keep it there. Thanks for understanding. ;) you’re the best!

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Hey there, would like to meet you in game, if you're interested!

Server: Brynhildr
Willing to transfer: Not atm. I have a house. Maybe ;)
Personal Interests: anime, RPGs, comics, movies , GoT
Play schedule: Sun- Wed after 7pm est. Anytime during rest of the week
What kind of gamer are you: Casual with a purpose. Not on Savage content yet but I grind for glamors.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?*
Yes, rather not flirt with another guy.
Character Race: Mi'qote
Preferred Race: Mi'qote, Au ra, Hyur, viera
Main class?: BRD until gunbreaker
Dislikes: salty elitist try hards. Disrespectful ppl, racist, immaturity
Goals for the game: Tackle all content at a reasonable pace, get glamors.
Goals for the marriage union: Cure my loneliness. Want someone reliable to quest with and have fun with. And keep each other company. I have a small house I'd really like to keep if possible but your more than welcome to decorate it

In-game name is Snow Leonhart. Drop me a msg.
Discord: Snow_Leonhart#4945

Hey, thanks for the response. :) That’s sounds like a great idea. I’ll attempt to whisper you or send you a letter today. :)

OMG, why didn't I find this thread sooner! :o

Reading up on a lot of these posts... I love it when people are looking for a partner. ♥
One of the posts reminds me of my husband and I accused him the other night of secretly writing a post here because they had a similar sad past relationships as he did. :confused:

Of course... he swears he never wrote anything in the forums... *still suspicious... :mad:

Server: Jenova
Willing to transfer? No, I have a house, but willing to share :)
Personal Interests: FFXIV, Vocaloid, Drawing, Animating, BL alskdhasjdh stories, OC's
Play schedule: Various
What kind of gamer are you: Midcore? Casual?
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I don't care
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Anything but a lalafell, sorry those are children to me Q_Q - Would prefer a male as well!
Main class?: AST,SCH, WHM
Dislikes: People think I hate them because I get easily distracted and forget to reply, racism, against LGBTQ
Goals for the game: Have fun and raid, make some memories !
Goals for the marriage union: Create backstories with them, have fun, hang out! GPOSE alot!! :D I will even draw them from time to time! Become friends! Character Devlopment
Etc: I wouldn't date you in real life sorry! Only be friends :<! But I would hang out with you though in game when I can! :D We can also play other games together ! I have DBD, OW and more as well. Let's become friends also!
Discord: Cornflakes#6969

Server: Suren
Willing to transfer? No
Personal Interests: anime, music, funny things, cars
Play schedule: it's kinda random. Lately all day everyday
What kind of gamer are you: ibplay racing games but only ff14 currently
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Doesnt matter to me
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: it doesnt really matter. If I had to choose no roes.
Main clroles. Right now Sam. In a week who knows. 5.0 more than likely dancer.
Dislikes: I dont have many
Goals for the game: I just want someone to raid with. Glam with. Run things with.
Goals for the marriage union: I dont have to get married more for just having a partner to play with.
Discord: Gilgastorm#4277

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Originally Posted by IkaraGreydancer

Im hoping so :)

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Your character looks super kool. :O

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Originally Posted by Insertcoins

Your character looks super kool. :O

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Thx. Id say the same for yours :D

Is this tinder for FF14?

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Originally Posted by IkaraGreydancer

Thx. Id say the same for yours :D

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Dang.. you're on Aether T.T I was gonna say if we're in agreement let me move in and take over your sofa. I cook :D

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Looking for a partner in crime!

Server: My main is on Coeurl (Crystal) with a small house. Also have an alt I play regularly on Sargatanas (Aether)

Willing to transfer? Maybe, but probably not. I just recently transferred, but will consider it for the right person.

Personal Interests: Sports (big into golf), anime, video games, food, traveling, movies, music. You know, all the usual stuff haha.

Play schedule: I'm on pretty much everyday. Mainly in the evening PST time, but it depends on the day of the week and what my schedule is.

What kind of gamer are you: I've been everywhere from filthy casual to hardcore. Right now I'm pretty casual and just trying to explore all the content that I haven't done so far.

Character Gender: Male in game and out.

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I'd prefer a female for both, but always looking for good friends as well.

Character Race: Male Highlander at the moment, but that could change at any given time. Will never go Lala though XD

Preferred Race: Anything but Lala for EB, but friends can be anything.

Main class: Probably BRD? I switch between BRD, PLD, and RDM quite often. Currently working on WHM as well.

Dislikes: No communication, cockiness, elitist attitudes, ignorance, bigotry, racism, and any type of derogatory language towards the less fortunate.

Goals for the game: Try and explore as much content as I can. Will possibly be looking to raid in the new expansion, but nothing hardcore.

Goals for the marriage union: To find someone to share my time with in game and out. I enjoy the game and would love to have someone to share all the little moments that make the game so special. Definitely looking for someone who wants to spend time with me as much as I want to spend time with them.

Etc: Definitely open to anyone who is looking for someone to talk to. I'm on Discord regularly and am always around in some form to share a chat. My Discord is Bonja#9989 so feel free to add me and we can see how things go from there. Hope to hear from some fun and exciting people!

Server: Midgardsormr - Aether

Willing to transfer: Yep, I switched from Cactaur not realizing that world visit was implemented so i kinda regret it lol.

Personal Interests: Fashion, Art, Horror -- Movies, Music, Anime/Manga, Games, the stuff everybody likes in someway.

Play schedule: Right now I don't really have a schedule, just kinda playing whenever. I'm on PST

What kind of gamer are you: Casual

Character Gender: Female irl and ingame
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: As long as your upfront about it, I don't mind.

Character Race: Hyur Midlander - Possibly Viera come July

Preferred Race: My dream is to be with a full height femroe, but I don't care that much lol
Main class?: White Mage/Scholar

Dislikes: Drama, Rude People, Etc. Can't really think of many I'd write down atm.

Goals for the game: I'm hoping I can make some friends after coming back from a long hiatus, and possibly find an FC. I'm really shy so making friends is hard for me and it gets lonely playing an mmo without anyone lol

Goals for the marriage union: I really just wanna find someone to be friends with, play the game with and to form a connection that doesn't end outside of the game. I've lost alot of good friends cause of leaving the game, and I'd like to avoid that if I choose to stop for awhile again.

Etc: Please feel free to message me on discord at XJ-69#3288 if you want, I'd love to talk/discuss interests/meet up ingame, etc. Like I said, I'm a bit shy at first but I promise I can hold a conversation lol

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Originally Posted by Insertcoins

Dang.. you're on Aether T.T I was gonna say if we're in agreement let me move in and take over your sofa. I cook :D

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Yup different DCs..thats a bummer.

Character Name: Tehpotata Man

Server: Ultros (Primal)

Willing to transfer? Yeah sure. Only have one friend playing and we don't do anything together anyways

Personal Interests: Drawing, Seeing other peoples drawings, animals, pets, Animations(Not to be confused with Anime), Manga(Prefer reading over watching most anime), Web comics with stories, Video games (RPGs, Platformers, anything nintendo, Retro games, pokemon, Monster Hunter, plus more just ask), Recently getting into building Gunpla and collecting plushes

Dislikes: People who won't listen to the other side of the argument, Drama, playing Competitive games/PvP unless it is with friends only, other things that I can't think of atm

Play schedule: Mostly Early mornings on my working days 7am-ish to 1pm PST. Then on my weekends I usually am around all night long. Willing to Readjust my times to play in the mid afternoon before going to work.

What kind of gamer are you: Casual completionist who is starting to be ok with not getting achievements/trophies in all the games I play

Character Gender: Male Char Male IRL

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No but for EB would prefer F/F

Character Race: Midlander Hyur

Preferred Race: None but for EB no Lalas please

Main class?: Monk for Main. Getting into White Mage lately for healer, Eventually want to try a tank class

Goals for the game: Just to enjoy all of the content I can.

Goals for marriage Union: Just want to find an individual who shares similar interests that wants to run through future content with me. Also willing to help and do any content that you still need or want to do. I secretly love running all content over again. Even Aurum Vale. Let's go get it done.

Etc: I'm 31 and I am a shy guy. I tend not to get very talkative with people until I get a chance to know and understand them. I will hit the ground running with any converstation dealing with animation or drawing(especially if you draw). So really my goal here is to find people who shares similar common interests that I can feel comfortable talking to.

Message in Discord tehpataman#0041 or message me in game. atm doing all that I can before Shadowbringers so FF14 is kinda my life right now.

server: Mateus
Willing to transfer? maybe if we get along together
Personal Interests: Gaming, anime, cute stuff
Play schedule: Pretty much all day every day
What kind of gamer are you: Somewhat casual
Character Gender: Female (Trans Female irl)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I'm only looking for Female or other Trans female players
Character Race: Au Ra,hyur
Preferred Race: Hyur midlander, Miqo'te sun, Au ra,Viera as long as they're female
Main class?: White mage
Dislikes: liars, being pressured into doing stuff I don't want to do
Goals for the game: None really, other than to have fun, keep playing and do the stuff I enjoy to do, like swimming, taking screenshots, the story and getting cute minions
Goals for the marriage union: To meet someone I really bond well with and for us to enjoy each other's company, run content together, help each other out and maybe, hopefully have it turn into something more ^-^
Discord: Lena#9449

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Server: Leviathan

Willing to transfer? Can discuss down the line

Personal Interests: Games, movies, kpop, travel, music, Gordon Ramsey shows and food!

Play schedule:Most nights, EST timezone

What kind of gamer are you: Casual, outside of raiding and the combat side of things, I'm pretty inexperienced.

Character Gender: Male

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Don't Care, just be cool.

Character Race: Mi'qote

Preferred Race: Female Au ra or Mi'qote preferred (Viera too), but open to whatever. Not a big fan of Roes though...sorry not sorry :P.

Main class?: SAM/NIN main

Dislikes: Disrespect, one word answers, liars, you know the deal.

Goals for the game: Work on crafting/gathering, clear end game content, make tons of gil, have fun making and friend and enjoying the game with them. Lastly, make an awesome house and have it well decorated (with the papaya song playing of course).

Goals for the marriage union: Looking to make a cool friend who enjoys talking about whatever, playing games together, and just chilling in our spare time. Definitely down to play other games when FF gets boring too. Not looking for a relationship outside the game, but definitely cool with the friendship extending outside of FF.

My Discord is: Koka#0970

Feel free to drop me a message if you're interested!