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Originally Posted by SynMaris

My best friend is gay, and he has no issues when I say stuff like "Thats Gay". So...

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LOL! The good ole' 'But, I have a friend who is X, I can't be Y!!' trick.

TL;DR Not everyone is your 'best friend'. So...

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Originally Posted by SynMaris

My best friend is gay, and he has no issues when I say stuff like "Thats Gay". So...

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A group/community/world/universe(?) is not made of besties only, though ;)

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Originally Posted by Nuinn

A group/community/world/universe(?) is not made of besties only, though ;)

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It's still something silly to get worked up over. I don't get mad when gays say things like "Breeders" or "Straights" its a silly thing to get worked up over. Thick skin people, thick skin.

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Originally Posted by SynMaris

It's still something silly to get worked up over. I don't get mad when gays say things like "Breeders" or "Straights" its a silly thing to get worked up over. Thick skin people, thick skin.

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You do realize what you're saying is the equivalent of a racist saying 'well, I have a black friend that doesn't mind me saying n*****s, why should YOU get upset?'

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Originally Posted by Amyas

You do realize what you're saying is the equivalent of a racist saying 'well, I have a black friend that doesn't mind me saying n*****s, why should YOU get upset?'

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I don't mind myself saying it, I'm black, and I use it as a term of endearment.
If its not being used in a blatantly racist way I have no issues with it. My friends use it, my family use it, all as a term of endearment "You're my n***a"
Anyway I feel I have made my point. Carry on :D

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Originally Posted by SynMaris

It's still something silly to get worked up over. I don't get mad when gays say things like "Breeders" or "Straights" its a silly thing to get worked up over. Thick skin people, thick skin.

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Others may not have a thick skin, especially if it's a community (talking about ARR one, in particular) where there's minors. I dunno.... just think it's very selfish and lazy to expect someone to have thick skin cause someone else can't refrain from using a word, or saying something in a different way.

Thing is, which I don't think many get, that for some it really is as annoying or offensive as using the "N" word. Sure, I don't mind absolute political incorrectness. On the contrary, I enjoy it, among a group of friends, or otherwise trusted people.... but even then I try not to go over the top /shrug.

("Breeders" is too disturbing, unless it's used in a SCI-FI movie or something o___O;;; though that's just my 2¢)

I feel like it's too many "me" and not enough "us" in general with such situations.

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Originally Posted by SynMaris

My best friend is gay, and he has no issues when I say stuff like "Thats Gay". So...

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Congratulations on having a friend? Just a word of advice, though? We don't like being carted out as representatives of the whole minority. We also don't really enjoy being an example of how you're so tolerant.

Are there any gay guilds or guilds that like gay people on Exodus server?

It looks like the main page isn't being updated anymore...last edit was in September. :(

Can't hurt to hawk again, I suppose. :cool:

Zodiac Braves: LGBT-friendly FC on Lamia - http://zodiacbraveslamia.shivtr.com/

I guess my Dust Bunny will have to keep me company for now.

I seriously don't understand all the need for stand alone LGBT FCs. Even after all the discussion here from both sides it still does not make sense to me. I have never had LGBT friend in any mmo, guess this thread explains why -_-.

Maybe try us out, :( . Your sexuality does not matter one bit, heck I have not heard the word "f*g, gay" in a long time, usually it is "f***ing c**t, piece of sh** Twintania".

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