Originally Posted by
ESieg
So a little context here, I have been playing ffxiv for quite some time now (about a year and a half) and I have this main account, where I've already maxed everything out in level and ilvl. So being bored, I decided to create an alt to level stuff again.
I usually go for the loot drops in dungeons, while not really bothering to purchase gear off vendors until I hit level 50 (I only do this on DPS classes on my alt), at which point I upgrade everything to ironworks gear. I run normal dungeons (from 15 to 50) and this way of leveling has always served me and my party well. I get on my bard today and enter the stone vigil at level 43. My ilvl is at 31 at this point and I'm wearing the mini aetheryte earrings for some bonus exp and stats. We get this roe DRK tank, who eyes me when the dungeon starts. We're all primed to go, but he doesn't move.
Then he hits me with this gem:
"youre using the lvl 32 bow you got from the last archer quest at lvl 43. Youre also wearing a lvl 16 hat. There are vendors everywhere and the game throws money at you, go buy gear."
He was basically telling me to piss off to buy gear, which I wasn't okay with. I assured him that I had done runs of the stone vigil on my BRD before and that my damage output and use of my support abilities never caused any issues for the rest of the party in my current gear. The healer leaves at this point, because the tank wasn't moving and the tank follows suit soon after. Leaving me with one last jab.
"Im going to leave too entirely bc of you. go buy gear. do not expect other ppl to carry you"
This dude hasn't even started the dungeon, and he already assumes the worst and feels like it's enough reason to act like it's that time of the month for him :p