FFXIV dating sim

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Originally Posted by Lieri

Whats a dating sim? can I pentameld it?

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Only if you want to start that harem

I don't find it weird but long distance is tough, my husband and I only lived about three and a half hours from each other when we were dating and that wasn't easy. Having things in common is important, though, so meeting through a shared hobby makes a lot of sense.

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Originally Posted by Alec97

Try at what you the one who admitted their boyfriends would rather drink themselves to death than be around you and no wonder with how you treat other people's belief systems.

My question is if you've been in a relationship for 5 yrs, why haven't they committed? They seem to have placed you on hold, but the best predictor of future actions is passed ones.

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for someone who was just joking, you're certainly reading a lot into this.

No more wierd then any other online dating service or chat room. But at least if you meet in game you know you have atbleast one thing in common.

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Originally Posted by SassyAssassin

I mean...airplanes, cars and that kinda garlean sorcery.

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Airplanes and Garlean Sorcery are my favorite themes. Maybe it can work between the two of us..

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Originally Posted by LianaThorne

The only things I've ever gotten from a bar are a hangover and alcoholic ex boyfriends. I'll pass.

Also would rather not be set up with someone who devotes their life to a being in the sky, double pass.

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I dont think they meant atendees as flight attendants, but the bartenders instead. And i'd be more than happy to be set up with a woman devoting her life in the sky, be it a FA or a Pilot even. That's my passion.

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Originally Posted by Alec97

No wonder you can't keep a partner.

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Yikes lol, apply burn heal there.

Sorry but "5 years is a long time to not get married already" is a personal opinion and not a mature one. 5+ years is a totally normal amount of time to get to know someone deeply enough to commit to them for life.

"Marry someone in 6 months or give up" is a very 2022 and immature way to view things and a recipe for having lots of divorces, housing complications, and general life problems.

Also holy cringe Batman "she's not worth marrying over 30 cuz she's gonna have difficulty having kids so theres 0 point" LMAO wowwwww bruh. Wowww..... That's an award winner right there if ever I've read one.

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Originally Posted by Alec97

Try at what you the one who admitted their boyfriends would rather drink themselves to death than be around you and no wonder with how you treat other people's belief systems.

My question is if you've been in a relationship for 5 yrs, why haven't they committed? They seem to have placed you on hold, but the best predictor of future actions is passed ones.

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Did Liana steal one of your alcoholic boyfriends from you or something?

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Originally Posted by Alec97

Please Im not American nor would I date down.

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No one called you American. They implied an American stole your prospect, lol.

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Originally Posted by Alec97

She's on an American server, so we would need to travel in the same social circles to meet. Use your brain.

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Wow, that person stole someone from a different social circle? That's impressive!

Brand new account ousting themselves as an alt account of one of the troll regulars this early? Bold move. Also, who the hell creates a new sub for a game JUST to troll on forums? I can't quite understand that.

It's like I'm back in high school!

I like how it went from rainbows to satan in under 10 pages lol.

From "Aww it's nice that people are finding each other in mutual things like games"
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"Women over 30 shld just give up and die alone bc only beta cucks will want their ancient parchment looks and dusty dried up wombs"
lmfao this is one for the recordbooks.

I actually know a few people that met in-game and ended up getting married! And they've been pretty happy marriages at that. Nowadays meeting someone online and falling for them is pretty common. It's not for everyone. I learned I cannot do LDR. I met my current SO outside of the game but playing XIV together certainly brought us closer. Using a video game specifically to try and hook up does sound weird, but it sounds about as weird as using online dating sites or dating apps which is super common nowadays. Online games provide social interactions with many, and hooking up is a social activity for many. It works for some and it doesn't work for others. There's always going to be the risk of the person you're talking to catfishing you in the online world, but there are people out there also genuinely looking for love and on many occasions, it ends up working out!

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Originally Posted by Alec97

That happens when you take yourself too seriously and can't laugh at yourself. Everything feels like an attack. If I were going to insult you, I would be blunt about it.

Though if you feel insulted, you must feel like there's something to insult.

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Kupo <3 met his lady kupo <3 during a raid in an older game..and we are still happy after many years kupo <3

Love has no bounds kupo <3

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Originally Posted by Doc_Seraph

Kupo <3 met his lady kupo <3 during a raid in an older game..and we are still happy after many years kupo <3

Love has no bounds kupo <3

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Next time I visit Jenova imma hand you strawberry pocky uwu

Kupo <3 nom nom nom thank you

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Originally Posted by Doc_Seraph

Kupo <3 met his lady kupo <3 during a raid in an older game..and we are still happy after many years kupo <3

Love has no bounds kupo <3

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Are you saying you found someone who wanted your nuts, kupo?

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Originally Posted by Illmaeran

Are you saying you found someone who wanted your nuts, kupo?

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Many prior to her in my younger days found the kupo nuts to be enjoyable kupo <3 but yes she does ^_^ lol

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Originally Posted by DerpyWhiskers

I like how it went from rainbows to satan in under 10 pages lol.

From "Aww it's nice that people are finding each other in mutual things like games"
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"Women over 30 shld just give up and die alone bc only beta cucks will want their ancient parchment looks and dusty dried up wombs"
lmfao this is one for the recordbooks.

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Please tell me no one actually said that.

I don't understand why there's always so much misogyny on these forums. I hate using the word because I don't want to look like some karen but if people are actually dropping takes like that then there's no other way to describe it.

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Originally Posted by Vatom

Only if you want to start that harem

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I was not ready for this. I laughed a little too hard at work.

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Originally Posted by Raoabolic

You mean you don't play Crusader Kings irl? You haven't been livin'!

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That games is 11/10. Just the amount of weirdness that can happen with or without your help is a riot.

It isn't weird, but it does require a substantial amount of trust. Most people on the internet are fine (it's true), but there are people out there very invested in being someone they aren't. Just be sure to verify that the person you're talking to is who they say they are before you get too committed, and remember to keep yourself safe. Otherwise, absolutely no harm in it!

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Originally Posted by NekoMataMata

Please tell me no one actually said that.

I don't understand why there's always so much misogyny on these forums. I hate using the word because I don't want to look like some karen but if people are actually dropping takes like that then there's no other way to describe it.

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To be fair I'm pretty sure it's one person creating new accounts constantly.

makes sense. church also taught me that women aren’t useful for anything other than child birth. that’s why i no longer go.

People have been dating and meeting their partners on MMOs for decades now. This is hardly anything new and I personally don't find it wierd. What I did find a bit strange are people who make party finders advertising themselves as looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend etc. That's just opening Pandora's box and taking a chance you don't catch a creep/catfish.

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Originally Posted by Alec97

5 yrs to get married is an exceedingly long time to wait to get married, even by modern standards; it's not a 2022 thing to say. Its what people have been traditionally doing for hundreds of yrs. People are usually married by 23-25. My great grandparents and community members do it in a few weeks to months it my grandparents and parents have weeks to months as well. It doesn't take 5 yrs to know anyone, especially if you are screwing them and yes, if you're entering an age of geriatric pregnancy where you are ageing and are likely to experience problems, why would men go for you when they can get younger women. You are no longer as good-looking or fertile, but if the man gets free sex, he can keep you on the side and find a better woman.

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Side note since I missed this gem of a post,

Good thing we both don't want to have kids either then, aye? ;3 If anything we'll adopt in the future and give someone a home.

Also, just because YOU may have had men/women in your life leave you for someone younger or been told by others that they will (or if you have done it to someone else in which case that's a whole other kind of gross) doesn't mean EVERYONE does/that it's the majority that does. I have a very comfortable & healthy relationship where my partner gives me the room to completely be myself and loves me unconditionally. Even when I'm looking like complete trash, he's there to tell me I'm beautiful. When things go wrong, we work them out together and come out better for it.

Sorry that this type of relationship is foreign to you. Should probably work on correcting that instead of making assumptions about my sex life/the state of my reproductive organs on an FF forum.

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Originally Posted by Alec97

Please Im not American nor would I date down.

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Are you German, by chance?

I just ask as we had a very recent person from that lovely country (I have many fine German friends), complaining he would be without power soon and asking our friends in the USA to keep him posted on FFXIV news.

Yup Im completely sure now that there are no mods here

The previous dumpster fire thread was shut down after 10 days or so, and I can only assume the creator got banned since it appears this fresh new account has very similar views and mannerisms despite a different backstory.

Met my husband in EverQuest 2 in 2005.

/shrugs

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Originally Posted by Sweetness

People you don’t need to explain your relationships to anyone. If both parties are happy then that’s all that matters.

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ftfy
/10char

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Originally Posted by LianaThorne

Side note since I missed this gem of a post,

Good thing we both don't want to have kids either then, aye? ;3 If anything we'll adopt in the future and give someone a home.

Also, just because YOU may have had men/women in your life leave you for someone younger or been told by others that they will (or if you have done it to someone else in which case that's a whole other kind of gross) doesn't mean EVERYONE does/that it's the majority that does. I have a very comfortable & healthy relationship where my partner gives me the room to completely be myself and loves me unconditionally. Even when I'm looking like complete trash, he's there to tell me I'm beautiful. When things go wrong, we work them out together and come out better for it.

Sorry that this type of relationship is foreign to you. Should probably work on correcting that instead of making assumptions about my sex life/the state of my reproductive organs on an FF forum.

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Hi guys! Im wasnt active in this forum for a looong time and usually only read stuff here from time to time since I returned to playing the game, but that comment from alec97 triggered me lol. How can ppl be so judgemental about sooo little info they get from a conversation on the internet with total strangers? Let me show you how its done alec: you seem to be a bitter and toxic person ,thinking too mutch about marriage and making kids instead of understanding that ppl can be happy without any of them. And the way you targeted liana because of her way of live with your passive aggressive comments shows you cleary look down at her for what ever reasons. Dont try to conceal that with stupid "jokes" How about you do a break from the internet for a while and go meditate or something? It could detox your personality a litte.

Ok thats all from me! Looking forward to read some more on this topic

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Originally Posted by Leukah

It isn't weird, but it does require a substantial amount of trust. Most people on the internet are fine (it's true), but there are people out there very invested in being someone they aren't. Just be sure to verify that the person you're talking to is who they say they are before you get too committed, and remember to keep yourself safe. Otherwise, absolutely no harm in it!

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Wholesome comment. I agree.

The social aspect of FF XIV (and almost every other MMO) is really big. People find it easier to connect in this games because, well you already share a common interest. As other users say it it requires a lot of trust because the other one could be lying and there is no way to prove it... but when you have been gaming and raiding for years, thats one less obstacle.

If you find it weird dont worry, you can spent hours and hours of "regular" or normal content, I know I play this way. But for others talking, going to clubs and other stuff is the main experience they have.

In other words, games like these can be what you want to take from the: a dating sim, a casual game to relax, a sweaty competition of clears/pvp, what ever you want

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Originally Posted by Imora

Met my husband in EverQuest 2 in 2005.

/shrugs

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I played this was fun kupo <3 I think its still going..have no idea the state of the game but was fun back in the day kupo <3

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Originally Posted by Doc_Seraph

I played this was fun kupo <3 I think its still going..have no idea the state of the game but was fun back in the day kupo <3

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It was, I played as an Illusionist, had a lot of fun crowd controlling. Healing is ok, but an also ran to that.

https://i.gyazo.com/66e7d0a286f82951...d4faf4963d.jpg

Having a real need to CC adds in FFXIV and a few more CC spells for the healer would be quite awesome.

Let people e-date.

The fallout and resulting google doc's are a free source of entertainment for those of us that just sit back and eat popcorn.

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Originally Posted by Shibi

It was, I played as an Illusionist, had a lot of fun crowd controlling. Healing is ok, but an also ran to that.

https://i.gyazo.com/66e7d0a286f82951...d4faf4963d.jpg

Having a real need to CC adds in FFXIV and a few more CC spells for the healer would be quite awesome.

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Kupo <3 I loved illusionist and coercer...i would charm everything i could and see what did what and/or hit the hardest...was fun kupo <3

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Originally Posted by Doc_Seraph

Kupo <3 I loved illusionist and coercer...i would charm everything i could and see what did what and/or hit the hardest...was fun kupo <3

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You are still a charming moogle :)