As I said, I thought the initial ARR races had a good mix of body types, and actually all the males and females of each race are "pairs" of body types. It's only the expansions that have added vastly different "paired" male and female designs.
No, you can't please everybody - but you can try to please as many as you can, and if there are enough characters with similar designs in one way, you can do something different next time. If there are obvious gaps in character types that people are asking for, you can try to fill them.
It's not about the costume itself (I have more issue with it being a direct copy of a specific character's gear, instead of something unique), but that it seems completely incongruous with their "jungle warrior" lore. If they were wearing the exact same amount of clothing in practical-looking cloth and, I don't know, woven vines? Fine. But black leather and sheer gauze? Um, what.
Also that they were only shown doing cute flirty poses, and not being elegant warriors. Which is... well, it that's how they want to market them, fine. But it's clearly aimed at "the audience" and seems totally at odds with how they've been described in the game so far. I have no prior familiarity with them, only what was described by the Dramaturge.
And yes I realise that people of both genders may find them attractive - I never said anything about it being only for men to stare at.
I'm sorry, do you think I meant that? Because I honestly didn't.
There is nothing wrong with having "slim sexy girls" in the game. Or using them. Or dressing them up in whatever you like.
I'm just saying... I just meant to say... your original question was, "what's wrong with women conforming with the typical archetype of beauty, grace, and sensuality and men conforming with strength, ferocity, and fortitude?" - and there isn't anything wrong with that. There are plenty of opportunities to do that. But they seem to keep giving more of those same opportunities instead of doing something different.
I'm not trying to be all "tear down gender norms" or anything, I just like variety in character designs, and don't think every new race in a fantasy setting needs to follow those archetypes.
