how they enforce tos is wrong

Hey..Chloe right?

Just wanted to say that I don't pretend to understand where you are right now, but I hope things get better. And I think that you making these posts with these accounts shows that you do too. Try to hold on to that feeling of wanting things to be better. They won't magically be better, but sometimes just knowing that we want it to be better is a start.

Take care

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Originally Posted by Daddyslittlevampire

That impossible when someone sets you off irl or online it happens to fast to realize you cant stop yourself from reacted.. if that's how the world is... I don't want to be in this world anymore

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Then you need to seek help by getting a therapist. I'm not saying this to be mean. I'm saying this because people need help.

I'm 33, I've been seeing a therapist since I was 7. Every single month since. I still have a ton of issues I'm working through, but I've learned some things over time. I'm usually terrible with people, so I'm almost always acting like a weirdo dumbarse. I speak in chocobo puns half the time in game when I feel like talking, and if I don't feel like it I just right click and hide the chat.

If things are mentally bad for you, here's some links I have on hand from my own therapist that I've been given in the past:

https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/pages/depression.aspx

https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/pa...-thinking.aspx

https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/pa...happiness.aspx

https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/Pages/Tips.aspx


Mental health isn't something to take lightly, so please look into things if they're bad for you.

I know trolls can be frustrating, but letting them get under your skin to the point you fly off the handle is exactly what they want. You need to learn when to take a step back, and seriously ask yourself if it's worth continuing to engage with someone like that. Choose your battles -- especially if you can be provoked to such a point where you're landing yourself in trouble for lashing out. It's not worth possibly getting suspended or banned just to tell off some random internet stranger. They aren't a part of your life, they don't matter.

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Originally Posted by Daddyslittlevampire

You know happens irl if someone does any of that to me I can punch them in the face and walk away with nothing happening. Because they caused the effect to happen that isn't my fault or anyone else's for defending themself

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Excuse me!? That is not okay. You can't just punch anybody who upsets you under the excuse "they set me off, so it's their own fault."

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Originally Posted by Daddyslittlevampire

I'm sorry but its wrong you're expecting someone to take attacks like being called a troll or w/e and not defend themself. You know happens irl if someone does any of that to me I can punch them in the face and walk away with nothing happening.

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And how many times have you punched someone in the face and just walked away with nothing happening?

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Originally Posted by Daddyslittlevampire

So I feel like this needs to be said being a victim of this well since ARR came out, people sit there and scream"troll" when you have a different opinion or view and they sit there spreading that to others until it sets you off to say something, then they report honestly you devs and mods need look at the entire picture. If someone sets you off it's not your fault what you say to them it's called self-defense and defending yourself. I'm so sick of you protecting the bad people while punishing the good because they set you off to do something... seriously you need to learn to look at the complete picture not just what I or someone else says in retaliation

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So a troll harassed you, and you didn't report them?
And they tricked you into saying something that stepped over the line?

You like coming out and humiliating yourself publicly?
Is this a kink?

You really dont learn do you?

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Originally Posted by Daddyslittlevampire

So I feel like this needs to be said being a victim of this well since ARR came out, people sit there and scream"troll" when you have a different opinion or view and they sit there spreading that to others until it sets you off to say something, then they report honestly you devs and mods need look at the entire picture. If someone sets you off it's not your fault what you say to them it's called self-defense and defending yourself. I'm so sick of you protecting the bad people while punishing the good because they set you off to do something... seriously you need to learn to look at the complete picture not just what I or someone else says in retaliation


I'm sorry but its wrong you're expecting someone to take attacks like being called a troll or w/e and not defend themself. You know happens irl if someone does any of that to me I can punch them in the face and walk away with nothing happening. Because they caused the effect to happen that isn't my fault or anyone else's for defending themself.


If your going to punish the one who reacted you better start punish the one who set them off. Its not right that you punish the innocent person for just reacting while allowing the people to set them off.

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You and you alone are responsible for regulating your emotions.

Eh, people really do like to smash the troll button if you give an honest opinion they dislike for whatever reason. It's the reason I just want in-depth feedback surveys, since if you post it publicly on the forums here the hivemind gets upset.

That said, this thread is going into the abyss.

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Just like in real life, just suck it up. If you can't control your reaction, that's a you problem, not the TOS. As someone else pointed out, seek help if that's the case.
And you can't just punch someone and walk away, that's called assault and you can get charged for that.

Don't ever let a bully provoke you into doing something rash that can get you into trouble.

Instead, take your time, plan things right... and get them later.

Revenge is a dish best served cold, after all.