Balmung is NOT a lewd server

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Originally Posted by Ransu

I've been to balmung out of curiosity...It lasted all of 5 minutes before I went back to my server. To say its not a lewd server is to lie to yourself.

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Some of the creepiest comments I've seen being said openly in public chat channels on Balmung is coming from visitors from *other* servers, who have apparently decided that Balmung's unofficial status as an RP server makes it the perfect dumping ground for their freaky behavior.

In other words, a lot of that "lewdness" is coming over from your own communities. If you would not do this stuff on your own servers, then don't bring it to Balmung.

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Originally Posted by Gyson

Some of the creepiest comments I've seen being said openly in public chat channels on Balmung is coming from visitors from *other* servers, who have apparently decided that Balmung's unofficial status as an RP server makes it the perfect dumping ground for their freaky behavior.

In other words, a lot of that "lewdness" is coming over from your own communities. If you would not do this stuff on your own servers, then don't bring it to Balmung.

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I don't believe that for a second lol.

Im a former wow player from an american server called moonguard that had much the same reputation thanks to an Inn near the alliance capital Stormwind called the lions pride. It had the same sort of problem im seeing around quick sands here on balmung. But were all the players lewd andinto Adult role play? Hell no. It had a very strong roleplaying community there and a lot of decent players on it. Ive seen the same ehre on Balmung. Its a good server with tastes for all kind of roleplay. Just as long as you keep the adult roleplay pm and behind closed doors lol

Gonna chime in with my own two gil here. I started this game in 2.0's beta. I joined this server at the launch of FFXIV. Ul'dah used to be a great place to find some starter RP. Sure it had a somewhat high number of people in it, but nothing on the levels it is now. Ever since SE activated world visits, everyone and their brother in our datacenter decided Balmung's Ul'dah was going to be their Moon Guard's Goldshire (This is a world of warcraft reference where the moon guard server was the server folks dedicated to ERP). And the situation has only gotten worse with cross datacenter visits. If SE turned off world visits for 1 day and sent everyone visiting Balmung back to their home server, Ul'dah would be a bloody ghost town. Even just walking through the crowds of people I can count on 1 hand, the amount of Balmung players amongst the lewd crowd.

I think it's disgusting that so many people associate RP with ERP. Worse yet, there's been a number of times when someone forgot to keep their chat in whispers, and some really graphical text got displayed to everyone nearby. Worse of all, I could be passing through and people will whisper me if I have mare. I am one of the few players, that respects Yoshi P and the developers of this game, and when they asked the community to not use mods, I agreed with their request. The only thing I use for graphical improvement to my game, is Nvidia's GeForce Experience filters, which is supported by SE. I do wish SE would do something to help clean up Ul'dah so that it is at least, child friendly. Not to mention they can easily bust a few mod users who like to hack the server to make their chars sit in places that do not have chair settings. Like the railings and a few times, I seen people behind the innkeeper's desk where they do not belong. And then you got all the RMT Bots patrolling the floor of the quicksand, advertising their illegal RMT stuff.

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Originally Posted by Yimiko

I literally cannot even tell people to "stop shouting obscenities in chat, that's bannable" without getting mercilessly harassed, insulted, and attacked by multiple people with anyone else present either just cheering them on

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With respect, this is a part of your problem. Telling strangers on the internet that something they're doing upsets you (especially while implying threats) does the opposite of solving the situation; it throws gasoline on the fire and makes you a target. And even people who otherwise support your cause will probably find it funny that you naively made a situation you already didn't like even worse. As they say, "don't feed the trolls". In short, you'll have a better time if you don't do this.

If you really want things to change, all you can do is report people.

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Originally Posted by Yimiko

Shout chat has a purpose, and sh!tposting isn't it.

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Again with respect, but this is just your opinion. There are no special rules as to what can or can't be in shout chat, so players are free to use it in whatever way they want. Obviously it's not great if folks are violating the ToS in chat, but sh!tposting is one of the main things people use shout for, and I personally think that's really great.

If all you're interested in is Hunts, Fates, and Events, I don't think you need shout chat for that. Just join one or two Hunt Linkshells, which will have the added benefit of making sure you get those alerts even when you aren't in a crowded city. And for private events, just check the Other tab in Party Finder, where you'll see far more events than you ever would in shout.

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Originally Posted by Yimiko

Also, again, No. Once again, this is NOT my responsibility. I shouldn't have to bend over backwards to make it easier for you to be a crappy person.

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I mean, you're right. You shouldn't have to change just because other people are being jerks. But it's also kind of your only option. If you choose to, you can continue to endure; that's not an invalid solution. But it's possible that you might be happier if you made some sort of change that filtered this problematic behavior out of your life; that might be worth some kind of sacrifice. Only you can decide for sure, but keep in mind that even though it's less than ideal, it's one of the only tangible solutions available to you.

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It's always tourists coming to Balmung that perpetuate their twisted view of the server. For us RPers who actually live on Balmung, it is annoying to see wanderer/travelers always sending tells asking if we want to boink. Or it'll be some rando from another server sitting in Ul'dah shout chat thinking they're an E-Celeb. Go back to your own servers.

Even if Balmung wasn't locked for congestion, the same tourists make thousands of ERP alts the moment the server opens for new characters, forcing it to be back to congested status. Smh.

So if I go to Balmung right now, are you saying there will be 0 18+ ERP listings for FC houses?