I stand corrected. Still, seems like a minor thing to suggest would be a dealbreaker considering how much overall playtime was already put in. There should be multiple difficulty options as well.
Sorry bud, the game may just not be for you.
Solo duties past ARR get less braindead whack-a-mole as you progress.
If you can't find an actor/item tag and flip your shit over it to the point of ranting and quitting, you may just need a break.
Perhaps you yourself turned off actor/item nametags, who knows? But it is there, if you just follow the duty ques or common sense.