This is the solution i use. It wasnt my original idea, but ive been using it for so long i no longer remember who to attribute it to. Roll on the items you want, pass on the rest. Then, and this is the key, announce over shout or alliance chat something similar to the following: "Ok, ive already rolled. Good luck everyone. Gonna go afk and get a snack/use the bathroom/etc" Then? You wait. You actually can get up and go to the kitchen/bathroom/wherever if you like. You can tab out of the game and check twitter/discord/whatever. You can chat in FC or LS channels - but the key is that your character stops moving. If the person you are waiting on went afk and forgot to roll first, ok youre waiting until they return. In that case, actually getting up helps. But if they were "strategically" waiting for people to leave you know what happens? They usually see that this is now wasting THEIR time(they dont care about wasting yours), and they loot and leave. Problem solved? No, but it is reduced.
