Originally Posted by
Cilia
Except Hydaelyn doesn't force us to do anything. She lends us power, but we don't do anything we wouldn't have without her lent power. She lends us power because she thinks us worthy after seeing our good heart, putting faith in us to continue doing good. Not all Warriors of Light stay on the side of good, though (Saint Ajora); and even if people do stray from her laid out path and disobey her orders as we do in Shadowbringers, she still sees fit to lend us her power.
It's sort of how Emet-Selch complains about Hydaelyn vilifying the Ascians; yes, she does so, but their genocidal (Source-side) / omnicidal (shards) plans would cast them as villains to people who live there anyway. She lies about context to give people incentive, but we'd still do the things we do regardless of whether or not Hydaelyn told us to do them.
It's important to remember that, however duplicitous she may be, Hydaelyn's raison d'etre is protecting extant life from being consumed as Zodiark's fuel for resurrecting the Ancients who died during the Final Days. She literally exists for no other purpose than to restrain Zodiark and in so doing make sure the future belongs to those who live in the here and now, rather than those selfsame lives being used as livestock to bring back those who died aeons ago. While she may be increasingly shady, Hydaelyn is still benevolent to the races of man.