I was answering to the op, sorry, i should have been more clear about that.
In the ATH options you can totally divide the icons into 3 groups, self buffs, debuffs, and 3rd party buffs. Like in this screenshot (sorry for the size, the Lodestone is redimensionning it) :
https://img2.finalfantasyxiv.com/acc...ac804d2e92.jpg
Under my job gauge you can see my self buffs, while debuffs are on top of the screen in the middle, and 3rd party buffs more on the right.
