Yea the demolition timer is a very clear indication of how flawed the entire housing system is. I understand why it's there and why we need it for the system we have...but it's an awful thing that punishes players like OP who weren't neglecting their home. Life happened and they couldn't log in.
SE please upgrade apartments so they have more space and all the features houses have. That would be a step in the right direction to make this crappy system less crap. Players who are concerned about being able to keep their house or just want to be able to unsub for longer periods of time could get apartments without feeling like they're a miserable excuse of a home. And it would certainly reduce the amount of people aiming specifically for a house.
If my apartment offered me the same features as a house as well as more furnishing space I'm not sure if I would have even bothered with a house. But I like gardening and having an outdoor space...so I need a house to be able to do these things.
