Couldn't agree with you more.
I completely enjoyed the read and must point out at the fact that at one point, we ALL started out as a newbie baby... whether you just started your first steps as an adventurer in Eorzea, or taking your big first steps at endgame. Both can be scary and fun, depends on how you enjoy the game, and realize that one important fact, that you yourself was once a beginner.
By doing so, you should be able to appreciate other players who are also starting something for their first time. Doesn't matter whether he/she is either properly equipped for the fight (ilvl requirement, etc), or have watched YouTube prior to the fights (which I gotta say, actually ruins the FUN you could have discovering the challenge you're about to face).
I have also gone through such harsh scenario, but we stuck through it and the experience made it 10x better - I practically loved the game even more after going through such hardship.
Play to Enjoy. Enjoy to Play. :)
See you in Eorzea!