A friend in my LS has a group dedicated to Castrum and Praetorium (and Westwind due to how much queues suck for it) runs for her FC members that are just getting to these areas so that they can get through the dungeon, experience the cutscenes, and go at their own pace. I run with them fairly often as a way to break up the monotony of my own daily BS, enjoy the conversations, and let people get the whole story.
If you really want to make a difference, you can form something like this for your own FC. Make a Linkshell for it.
This is not going away any time soon, so people can either continue to deal with it, or do something about it.
EDIT: Also, being rushed through cutscenes has nothing to do with being an elitist. Please stop using that word to describe anyone who does something that you don't like.
