if you don't enjoy the game don't force yourself to play. ask yourself what it is you don't enjoy.
is it the GRIND? - find other options
is it your CLASS? - try playing a different one
is it the COMBAT SYSTEM? - it will never drastiscally change
is it the WORLD? - it will never change (well, ok ok that can actually happen. lol)
is it the LORE? - it will not change
if you don't like how much hp an enemy has in a dungeon and you wonder why it takes you so long to take one down as a SCHOLAR it may indeed be time for you to role a different class (or roll SMN, you should have THM up enough for swiftcast anyway)
of course doing one dungeon 3 times a day will get boring fast. why are you doing that? cap as fast as possible? why? you have a whole week to cap your tomes, do other dungeons! (I sincerely hope your answer isn't 'I need to join your boyfriend'. seriously, you're your own person, enjoy yourslf! and if you don't enjoy yourself - find something else)
