Should note that my Discord is there so you can add and chat with me if you meet the criteria. Don't add me if you're some neckbeard who's gonna lurk on my profile.
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Lurked for a bit but finally decided to post~
Server: Cactuar
Willing to transfer? No
Play Schedule: On most of the time, but can vary. Usually evening EST.
What kind of gamer: I'm probably around the casual mid-core.
Character Gender: Female
Real Life Gender/Character Gender Difference: I don't mind, since i do it almost all the time. I do tend to like female characters more often than not though.
Character Race: Lala
Preferred Race: Lala, Miqote, Au'Ra
Likes: Games, Weather, stuff
Dislikes: Drama, or kinky stuff without knowing the person (even though I am quite kinky myself).
Goals for the game: To play, have fun, and be cute~
Goals for Union: To get to know and talk with someone. I'd also rather only union someone I get to know first.
Etc: Discord is Nyberim#0827 if you want to chat or something (even if you aren't on the same server I'd still like to get to know people)
My partner and I have been together for nine months after meeting in this thread, and things are only getting better by the day. I hate to be all mushy, but I'm incredibly happy I randomly decided to whip up a post in here one day when I was feeling bored and lonely. It worked out quite well. :)
Server : Shiva ( fr player)
willing to transfert: No sorry, i have my fc, house and friends
Personnal interest : Ost, japan funk of the 70'/80' , cats, books
Play schedule: Every days, evening most of the time
What kind of gamer are you: Casual/midcore
Character Gender: Female ( man irl )
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character: preffering meet a woman ( irl and ig)
Preferred Race: Au ra, Miqo'te and Hyur
Main class : Paladin, dark knight, summoner and monk
Game interest : Glamour, lore, fishing
Goal for the meeting : find a friend to appreciate and explore the game, have some moments at two and maybe doing an rp relationship, marriage is not the finality for me .Like to speak of all and nothing, waste my time on fishing or in my house .
Discord : silmeria#0953
Just remove it and give it to someone who will quote you on this thread mayhaps?
I've seen you posting a lot still no success, If I were you id just remove it and wait till someone would quote me u wont really scare people off by telling them "dont add me"
Cheers and may luck be by your side
Server: Lamia
Willing to transfer? I don't have any obligations on Lamia. That being said I won't just go off and transfer on a whim. I'd have to get to know the other person a bit first and establish if they we are both truly willing to commit to whatever it is we end up getting into so as to not waste money on my end. I also honor the opposite meaning I don't expect her to just transfer simply because I'm not willing to do so up front. I'm extremely reasonable :).
Personal Interests: I enjoy anime and I am also into My Little Pony Friendship is magic. I also like chiptunes and I even dabble in creating my own, merely as a hobby.
Play schedule: Unemployed currently so very flexible schedule.
What kind of gamer are you: I love RPG's mainly and occasionally racing games with builder type games like Minecraft.
Character Gender: Female (though I'm a male IRL).
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: After giving it some thought I can overlook this since it's being a bit rude on my part to assume that a woman would be accepting of me playing a female character but I'm not willing to accept her playing a male character, so if a woman enjoys playing a male character who am I to disagree :).
Character Race: Au Ra Xaela
Preferred Race: Hyur, Miq'ote, Au Ra. I'm still debating whether I'm willing to accept Roe females. No footballs one being the obvious size difference, 2 they look too much like children to me and it just comes off as... weird. I have nothing against them outside of that though.
Main class?: Lancer and Red Mage.
Dislikes: To be honest I have too many to list here, they are reasonable dislikes though so.
Goals for the game: To just enjoy the game as much as any solo gamer can without tying him/herself to a guild or in this case an FC.
Just wanted to add this to my post seeing as I only had a 1000 word limit:
I have never really played as much of this game as maybe I could have or wished to but never really got into it. Needless to say with the release of Stormblood I've found myself enthralled with this game. I've missed out on so much of it and frankly I will probably miss out on alot in the long run. It would be great to find someone who has alot of similar interests as I do, even better if they played this game. I play MMO's mainly for the atmosphere without being direclty involved with the atmosphere. As someone who's MMO'ed for a very long time it was always fun thinking about meeting my significant other while gaming. There were occasions I met awesome people but never like girlfriend/boyfriend or possible marriage. I suppose I can throw in my lot and see what happens. I'm a little embarrassed and truly not expecting much but here's to trying anyway :P
you can edit your post and that allow you to pass the 1000 limitation
There's another thing that I think is gonna narrow your search:
Character Gender: Female (though I'm a male IRL).
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: yes I prefer a female and therefore a female character
So far I have seen some straight girls, and they want a guy playing a male character. Just saying o/
I honestly dont want to redo my character to male for someone that may or may not even happen for me. If I DO find a great woman and this proves a stumbling block I will address it then. Until then I have no desire to waste money phantasing my character to male, finding a name, finding a look when I'm already established as my lovely Jhaelit.
I wish to share an experience I had a long time ago back near 2004 when I was playing FF11. I had met a very nice lass back then and we played together alot. Turns out we liked alot of the same things so we both decided to risk it and ended up chatting outside of the game. We hit it off really well and eventually we got to talking on the phone. We were both very much interested in one another and things went really well but there was a problem. She lived on the other side of the US. At that time, I was 24 and she was about the same (It's been so damn log I honestly forget everything about it sadly) and things were great but eventually she wanted more, I was happy as a lark and I was all for it but she wanted to meet in person. I actually got terrified by this I wasn't very strong when it came to doing things out of the norm, so I unfortunately never met her in person. She was ok with this but I knew she was upset that we couldn't meet in person. Well things went along fine but eventually she met another guy in her hometown and she was torn between me whom she had a very close bond with and this new guy. Well needless to say I told her to go with the guy and eventually she married the guy, I fell waaay out of contact with her sadly and I hope she is still happy. I always wondered what could have bene if I had just taken that step to go meet her *sigh*. This was the first and ONLY time in my 20+ years of MMO gaming that I met a woman almost got serious. I know I put that info up earlier but I'm not sure I should even think about it other than something spontaneous that really won't lead to anything. It is my dream to meet another woman in a MMO like this but I know as well as anyone, if not more in these cases, that it's very rare. I count myself lucky I had managed to meet someone as awesome as that one girl in FF 11.
I don't want to take up too much room, but I found my boyfriend on this thread and we've just celebrated our 8 months three days ago. At first, I was amused that such a thread existed, so I snooped around. His post got my attention because (I'm not that vain I promise!) his character looked good in the photo. I lost a bit of sleep deciding whether I should PM him first or not (especially because someone replied to him first! +it seemed silly), but ultimately I did, only to be hit with "player is not online" :(. I didn't give up though! I went ahead and replied to him on this thread and everything kinda worked out!! We've been talking about meeting up soon when I go to Europe and more than likely, it's going to happen. It was hard at times considering different time zones, he's Swedish and I'm American, but it was all worth it.
Finally, as a bit of advice, please please please don't ever be too shy. Whether it works out or not, it's better to give yourself a slight chance than no chance at all. Make the first move! Thank you for reading this and good luck ♥
Obligatory picture of the wedding:
You know, I have read a considerable number of posts in this thread and while I understand alot of different opinions float about, I'm going to add my $0.02 to this. You can take it, leave it, ignore it, or straight up don't even read it :P. Ever since I was younger and started playing MMO's back in 1996, UO was the best X-D, I have always loved the idea of finding a mate through video games. I know this is a pipedream at best because of the rarity for finding someone. For the LONGEST time I pushed it out of my head and faced reality that i'd be better off looking elsewhere for companionship. I have to say though, seeing this thread (and frankly I have never read the forums in since I created my account back in 2013) gave me hope and I can't ignore that. I know I may be naive and that little glimmer of what I wished back 20 some years ago flashed its ugly head in my mind. But I can't deny there is a possibility to find someone. I want to cling on to that little bit of hope for even just a little while. I'm horribly lonely and frankly I don't want to really get into it for obvious reasons, but again that glimmer of hope has me excited that I may very well find someone. of course I'm not stupid enough to get ahead of myself. I'm going to post every once in a while and see if anything happens. I mean the worst that will happen is no one will message me and I will continue playing as I have for many years now.
Been a while since I've posted in the thread, so figure it'd be time for an update after getting a nice friend out of this lol
Server: Faerie
Willing to Transfer?: Nah, I recently came back after attempting to be on Balmung for a couple months.
Personal Interests: Hiking, FFXIV (obviously lol), Science-Fiction
Play Schedule: Generally Afternoon/Evening EDT
What kind of Gamer are you?: Uh. I guess Midcore, though I've abandoned raiding for the meanwhile as I feel too burned out on the idea.
Character Gender: Female
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Not really, I generally don't care if it stays friendly.
Character Race: Au Ra
Preferred Race: Generally fine with anything but Roe's >.>;;
Main class: Monk, Dragoon, Paladin, and White Mage \o/
Dislikes: Drama, People not being respectful of others opinions, Predatory people, Keep the kinks at the door unless we cool enough for that.
Goals for the game: At the moment, I'm just working on leveling all my jobs to 70, excluding crafters cause it's generally known I'm horrible at that lol. And Ixion >.> I have and will camp for Ixion cause I too dream of electric sheep unicorn horse zebra things.
Goals for the marriage: I'm perfectly cool with just friend things, if it developed beyond that cool, if not, cool.
Etc Discord is Colin#5415 cause I know discord is that hip thing everybody is using nowadays
https://68.media.tumblr.com/dcd02843...axmo1_1280.jpg
Well, thats too but this is the internet and this forum and anyone who dont play this game can check it and u putting your "house adress" well ofc all kinda people will come knocking. Well anyhoo its your decision, lets hope the neckbeards get away and cute cats comes to you :3
Cheers :)
Does that mean she burned me or something?
I ended up moving servers cause a RL friend wanted to help me thur some stuff.. but sadly he quit the game. Like who does that T.T Well since I moved servers I'm still looking but to be honest I don't know what I want. I was talking to a kool person on discord but they are on gil and I can't go there. :c - with it being locked.- So I dunno.
Server: Levi
Willing to transfer? Really depends honestly. Like depends on the person and if we both think we're worth it.
Personal Interests: Video games and video games. I have no life
Play schedule: Anytime really.
What kind of gamer are you: midcore but I want to try Savage.
Character Gender: Female but male in real life.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Friends no. I don't care at all. I only ask that we keep it in game if it goes past friends. I have no issue RPing.
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: midlanders, moon miqo'tes, and Au ras. I'm not against anything else really.. but I REALLY love the midlanders female run. It's SO CUTE. Like OMGAD
Main class?: Monk and thinking about alting Astro
Dislikes: Players Alot of stuff.. but I'm selfish... so if we do partner up I want all of you to myself. I don't like sharing. :c
Goals for the game: Getting better at the game and trying new things.
Goals for the marriage union: To have a friend/RP friend to do things with.
Etc: No stress, I just want to play the game and have someone to myself. Cause why not. What. I'm being as honest as possible. :c
Edit edit edit... Yes I mean it when I say ingame only. I don't care how far we go ingame but that's where I want it to stay as far as dating is. Friends can be whatever, but if it's past that I have NO issues RPing a relationship at all. But that has to stay ingame. Mainly cause I SUCK at that stuff in real life and lets be honest. 9 times out of 10 it'll be two guys anyway so lets keep it fun and not make it odd. I'm for whatever ingame tho. We all get lonely and want that person to poke our noses and whatnot. Lets just be kool real and goofy and save the planet. :D
Server: Balmung
Willing to transfer?: No, the reason I resubbed was to play with some friends on this server.
Personal Interests: Food, travelling, drinking, gundam model kits
Play schedule: 7PM-11PM M-F, varies on the weekends
What kind of gamer are you: Sometimes casual, sometimes hardcore
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Doesn't matter
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Doesn't matter
Main class?: Samurai/Ninja
Dislikes: Nothing really
Goals for the game: Own a house, make some friends, maybe join a Free Company
Goals for the marriage union: I'm not really sure how to answer this question
Etc: I can be contacted on Discord as Rei#1570. Just a heads up, I'm not looking for romance outside of the game, just someone to play the game with and share stories with
Server: Lamia
Willing to transfer? I don't have any obligations on Lamia. That being said I won't just go off and transfer on a whim. I'd have to get to know the other person a bit first and establish if they we are both truly willing to commit to whatever it is we end up getting into so as to not waste money on my end. I also honor the opposite meaning I don't expect her to just transfer simply because I'm not willing to do so up front. I'm extremely reasonable :).
Personal Interests: I enjoy anime and I am also into My Little Pony Friendship is magic. I also like chiptunes and I even dabble in creating my own, merely as a hobby.
Play schedule: Unemployed currently so very flexible schedule.
What kind of gamer are you: I love RPG's mainly and occasionally racing games with builder type games like Minecraft.
Character Gender: Female (though I'm a male IRL).
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: After giving it some thought I can overlook this since it's being a bit rude on my part to assume that a woman would be accepting of me playing a female character but I'm not willing to accept her playing a male character, so if a woman enjoys playing a male character who am I to disagree :).
Character Race: Au Ra Xaela
Preferred Race: Hyur, Miq'ote, Au Ra. I'm still debating whether I'm willing to accept Roe females. No footballs one being the obvious size difference, 2 they look too much like children to me and it just comes off as... weird. I have nothing against them outside of that though.
Main class?: Lancer and Red Mage.
Dislikes: To be honest I have too many to list here, they are reasonable dislikes though so.
Goals for the game: To just enjoy the game as much as any solo gamer can without tying him/herself to a guild or in this case an FC.
Server: Omega
Willing to transfer?: Wont sadly as just did to Omega
Personal Interests: Final Fantasy XIV, Gaming, trials biking and chilling.
Play schedule: GMT, Nights most days and all day on day's off.
What kind of gamer are you: Having fun, content, pvp, Rping and chilling
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: No, not really
Character Race: Au Ra
Preferred Race: Not worried
Main class: Dragoon
Dislikes: Not a lot really pretty relaxed
Goals for the game: To have fun and do content along with Rping. but pretty much enjoy the game in company of someone
Goals for the marriage: Indeed need to be able to have fun and joke, pretty much partner in crime :-)
Misc: Want someone to hang and chill with.
I normally don't do this since I wasn't really interested in EB but I like to read this forum out of boredom at work and your profile caught my eye, you seem like a fun person to play the game with (I'm not really looking for a irl relationship, mostly want someone to play and have fun with, but who knows what can happen...), sadly I won't change servers but if you are willing to come to Diabolos we can party and do stuff together.
My FC is full of really awesome ppl too! I'm a guy btw and also speak spanish! :D If you like, add me on discord:Antares#2416 (I added you on Discord but it's so you know who I am lol)
Cheers!
I ended up moving servers cause a RL friend wanted to help me thur some stuff.. but sadly he quit the game. Like who does that T.T Well since I moved servers I'm still looking but to be honest I don't know what I want. I was talking to a kool person on discord but they are on gil and I can't go there. :c - with it being locked.- So I dunno.
Server: Levi
Willing to transfer? Really depends honestly. Like depends on the person and if we both think we're worth it.
Personal Interests: Video games and video games. I have no life
Play schedule: Anytime really.
What kind of gamer are you: midcore but I want to try Savage.
Character Gender: Female but male in real life.Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Friends no. I don't care at all. I only ask that we keep it in game if it goes past friends. I have no issue RPing.
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: midlanders, moon miqo'tes, and Au ras. I'm not against anything else really.. but I REALLY love the midlanders female run. It's SO CUTE. Like OMGAD
Main class?: Monk and thinking about alting Astro
Dislikes: Players Alot of stuff.. but I'm selfish... so if we do partner up I want all of you to myself. I don't like sharing. :c
Goals for the game: Getting better at the game and trying new things.
Goals for the marriage union: To have a friend/RP friend to do things with.
Etc: No stress, I just want to play the game and have someone to myself. Cause why not. What. I'm being as honest as possible. :c
Edit edit edit... Yes I mean it when I say ingame only. I don't care how far we go ingame but that's where I want it to stay as far as dating is. Friends can be whatever, but if it's past that I have NO issues RPing a relationship at all. But that has to stay ingame. Mainly cause I SUCK at that stuff in real life and lets be honest. 9 times out of 10 it'll be two guys anyway so lets keep it fun and not make it odd. I'm for whatever ingame tho. We all get lonely and want that person to poke our noses and whatnot. Lets just be kool real and goofy and save the planet.
http://i.imgur.com/f2Lehxc.jpg A pic cause why not.
sonicadventures#8357 is my discord
Server: Zodiark
Willing to transfer?: no
Personal Interests: drawing, plushies, pastel colors, stars, animals
Play schedule: usually on after 1pm GMT till late evening
What kind of gamer are you: casual to midcore, I do like to do harder content every now and then
Character Gender: female (irl too)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: As long as you're not a creep I don't mind
Character Race: #lizurdmasterrace
Preferred Race: male lizurd only, I like to match
Main class?: SMN
Dislikes: rude people, creeps, low rolls, people who whine all the time
Goals for the game: to collect mounts, get a medium house from Shirogane, eventually clear new savage content (plus some old ones) and slowly but surely get all classes to 70.
Goals for the marriage union: take cute screenies, wear matching outfits, do content together like dailies and/or raids and just sit around talking.
Etc: I'm not looking for a rl relationship but rather I would like to find a close friend. EB can also come much later, I'm in no rush for that. I'd first want to get to know the person better. I am NOT into anything sexual (unless it's jokes. Jokes are always welcome) I won't erp, but i won't mind casual rp. (this is not mandatory, I won't force anyone to do it if they're into it)
P.S. I'll just put this right here: https://yorupop.tumblr.com/
That is my art blog where I post stuff.There's only one pic currently because I'm a lazy piece of garbage C':
Here is also my discord: Yoruo#6482
Servers: midgardsormr
Willing to transfer? if i can afford it one day!
Personal Interests: lots of manga/anime/jrpgs -- everything from the real shoujo stuff to action and adventure! i major in japanese, love love love history and astrology, and sometimes i try to draw but that's pretty hit or miss ahaha ☆ i've also watched more horror movies than i can count
Play schedule: varying times, it really depends on the day - but pretty often!
What kind of gamer are you: i'm still new and casual right now!
Character Info: f / miqo'te / blm / 60
Player gender: i'm a girl!
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? i don't mind either way! the cute (pretty? handsome? cool?) levels in game and a personality that i can click with are what matter to me!
Preferred Race: dragons and nyas! hyur are good too but dragons and nyas are the cutest
Dislikes: telling apart ツシソン on a time limit, when my cat dumps out water that i forget to finish drinking, and how jarring it is having so many buttons again after i leave pvp matches
Goals for the game: when i've had some more practice i'd love to get into the challenging endgame raid stuff - for now i find everything pretty fun, and i'm just focusing on progressing through the content. and ofc, glamour is the true endgame!!
Goals for the marriage union: lots of cute screenshots and glamours, it'd be really nice to have someone to help teach me the ropes for either just clearing things and getting comfy with them, or more serious rotations and strategies for stuff! if not that though, just having somone to talk to and goof off or rp with is more than enough for me to be happy (sun)
Etc: i'm 21 so i don't think i'd be comfortable considering romancey stuff with anyone under 19~20 themselves, even just with characters, but outside of that it's all good ❤ my discord id is at melleau#1255 so! let's be friends!!
Server: Cactuar
Willing to transfer? Sure
Personal Interests: Video games, books, movies, Music and sleep :P
Play schedule: Late nights, around 1-5AM EST
What kind of gamer are you: Somewhere in the middle.
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not really.
Character Race: Catgirl
Preferred Race: Don't have one.
Main class?: Heals
Dislikes: Timewasters.
Goals for the game: Own a personal house, get all the good glam and just enjoy the game in general.
Goals for the marriage union: Just looking for someone to play the game with really. It gets really lonely at night.
Etc: I'm really not too terribly picky, I'm just tired of playing alone all the time. And since some people seem to want to use this as a personal dating service, i'm male and i'm really just looking for someone to play with, good or bad. :P
My discord is Aidivni#0541
Server: Ultros
Willing to transfer?: Unfortunately no.
Personal Interests: Anime & Video Games.
Play Schedule: Typically around 5 P.M EST
What kind of gamer are you?: Hardcore/Casual
Character Gender: Female
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Preferably female but if you're a girl who prefers to play a male character that's cool.
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Miqo'te or Au Ra but I'm open to other races as well.
Main Class?: PLD
Dislikes: Dishonesty and Arrogance.
Goals for the game: Having fun while progressing through the game.
Goals for the marriage union: Getting to know someone and spending time with them.
Discord: Rinku#2440
Hi Luka! nice screenshots. I sent you a friend request on discord, and have an alt in hyperion by the name of Fahn Valis. If your interested lets chat!
Server: Odin (EU)
Willing to transfer? Cant because of rl friends.
Play schedule: Almost every day
What kind of gamer are you: Not hardcore, and love to explore the maps and get glamour
Character: Male Hyur.
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Nope. Even though I would prefer a girl irl.
Preferred Race: I don't mind.
Main class? Ninja. I love Paladin's glamour way too much though...
Personal Interests: cats, music, games, recently become a fan of reddit!
Dislikes: Elitists or people that dont care about others.
Goals for the game: Everything!
Goals for the marriage union: Not in a rush for union, but eventually would love to. Looking for a partner to do all things in game. I have irl friends playing, but its nice to have a partner too.
Etc:Turning 31 this year, and I would prefer talking and dealing with mature people. I have discord: fahn86#1161.
Looking forward to hearing from yall!
Hey Mel! Have you watched Kimi no nawa? Its epic!
I added you to discord, so lets chat if your interested