Well, thank you kind stranger... O.O that sounds a lot better, heh.
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Well, thank you kind stranger... O.O that sounds a lot better, heh.
So you don't care much about the in-game wedding after seven years of playing, but you want a female to chat to you while your wife watches you play and flirt if you think the girl is worth your time.
What if her character is male by the way?
Since you like it straight-forward and blunt...
One last thing, your play time is many hours, but just one job past 50?
His wife asked why he doesn't have a catgirl friend but I don't think she meant
he should find a catgirl who's also girl IRL so that he may flirt with...
@Final - Lol you're the Marriage thread police. xD
If people are fine with peoples descriptions I guess it's okay.
Like that one guy said, friendly warnings are okay.
Just how I like it :D
Let's see, let's take it one by one:
-Exactly as you stated, I really don't care much for it. Or rather, like I said in my post, it could or could not happen, I won't really mind either way. As for the second part of that sentence, my wife watches me play "once in a while" which is actually quite rare considering, as I stated further on, she despises video games in all forms.
-I hadn't considered that idea, to be honest so I am not sure how to answer it. Perhaps I will get back to it later.
-My schedule is pretty open, however my playtime isn't exactly "many hours". I have taken a few breaks in the past, so you'd be surprised to know that I do not have that much playtime. Even so, I'm not really a grind player (also mentioned in the post), I would say about half of my playtime has been spent either lounging about (also stated), or helping new players as I see them. Additionally, I'm actually not very much into other jobs. Tanking is my calling, and preferably Warrior (in this case) or Paladin. I love playing Warrior, and it's probably the only class that cannot bore me in any way. This has always been the case. Here in FFXIV, in FFXI (although I was also a Paladin there), and any other MMO I have played. You could actually call me narrow minded in that aspect!
-Lastly, I noticed you actually called out a guy earlier for "hiding his marriage". Since I have no interest in doing so, I have made my post as clear and honest as possible. So tell me.. which is it? Do you hate the honest ones, the ones that hide it, or you just have something against it in general? Personally, I am only interested in an in-game thing, but I get the feeling you're taking it beyond those limits and somewhat personal to you.
Any other questions? :)
Well Mik, this might actually surprise you, but I did actually ask what she meant. Specifically she said I can flirt and do as I wish, for she does not mind it. Once again, as long as it's limited to the confines of the game world.
But again, she can be a strange one, we're talking about someone who IRL asks me to "look at that girl over there and how pretty she is".
And again, I could've chosen to simply hide the fact, but I have no reason to.
And friendly warnings are great, however I assure you, there is nothing to be "warned" about. It is as I wrote it, take it or leave it. Makes me wonder if finding this thread was a mistake after all. Hmm.
https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/i...6DmiOZz5xGg9Lq
Posts in marriage hookup thread...
Isn't that interested in the in-game marriage...
To be blunt and honest, I find it creepy. So many married men looking for girlfriends these days.
You know what Final... You are a bit hopeless. Plenty of posts in these 791 pages who are not interested in the in-game marriage. Sigh. Additionally, there are also plenty of people here that are actively using this as an RL dating thread, which it's not. I believe I stated specifically that I do not have any interest of it going outside the game. Believe it or not, some people can actually stick to their in-game personas specifically. But anyway, to each their own. Good luck in your policing!
Server: Adamantoise
Willing to Transfer: maybe.. depends if we click.
Personal Interests: video games and comic books. Currently leveling in the newest of new content and also working on a comic book.
What Kind of Gamer Are You: midcore. I like to play to my best but I'm not against goofing off. I have alot of free time and just jumped on the game so I'm planning on spending TONs of hours into this one.
Character Gender: female
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same as their character? I dunno. I don't plan on taking this seriously, I honestly just want someone to play with. I guess for being married female, tho I don't care if it's a male character.. I mean I am playing a female character.
Character Race: Miqo’te
Preferred Race: Au’Ra, Miqo’te, Elezen, Hyur
Main Class: Monk
Dislikes: Elitists, salt, not having money, being homeless, not having someone to give random pokes on the nose and hugs too. And alot more serious stuff but I'll let those come out later when we talk. Well also trying to get myself out there cause I SUCK at convos.
Goals for the Game: Get my monk to 70 and learn all I can to become the best.. or try to be. Also I want the moogle dance and shoes. T.T
Goals for the Marriage Union: Someone I can do the contents with and just be a fool with. Life is too serious, there's nothing wrong with being a goof and enjoying life.
My opinion is mine own, it doesn't affect you or anyone reading this.
I replied to your post, stating the part I thought was strange, and you said you liked to be straight-forward and blunt. Don't worry, I've stuck to my in game persona very well, you won't ever see me ask a personal question, ever.
But that's just me, I think it's more hopeless posting here if you don't actually care to much about the wedding, that's my point really, you said it after all.
By the way you might want to list your age or does it not matter chatting on a third-party service, I think it might, just some thought.
No, he posted that hes allowed to flirt with real-life girls, 21+ if you didn't read his posts fully;
I just find it strange a married woman thinks her husband should be flirting with anyone on the internet, and her husband is only interested in finding a female to do dungeons with, as the marriage in-game isn't the focus.
And one last point, Discord is a third-party text/voice service, that's not an in-game feature, it's out of game.
Hey there why not hit me up on discord Kit G'rey #3683 or ingame same name . I look forward to meeting you
Kill thread button still not pressed? {Hmm.}
2nd and most likely final post
Name: Blackheart Kasuragi
Server: Midgardsomr
Willing to transfer? Not at this moment.
Personal Interests: Video games, Anime.
Play schedule: varies with my work, usually around 2ish CST.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual for the moment.
Player Gender:Male
Character Gender:Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yeah, sorry female preferred both game and RL.
Character Race: Highlander
Preferred Race: Any but Lala (again, sorry)
Main class?: Dark Knight
Dislikes: not having a sense of humor.
Goals for the game: To have fun, afterall isn't that what video games are for?
Goals for the marriage union: If anything mostly just looking for someone to hang out with, doesn't even have to be a marriage, if it leads to that then that's cool.
Ect.: if you can't find me in game, then i've gone missing...please call the police! or message me at:
#Skype: finalfantasyblackheart #discord: blackheart9912#5160 {side note: i don't chat much but i'm more then happy to text chat until we get used to each other :P}
and with that, Good day and good luck all
Server: Adamantoise
Willing to Transfer: maybe.. depends if we click.
Personal Interests: video games and comic books. Currently leveling in the newest of new content and also working on a comic book.
What Kind of Gamer Are You: midcore. I like to play to my best but I'm not against goofing off. I have alot of free time and just jumped on the game so I'm planning on spending TONs of hours into this one.
Character Gender: female
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same as their character? I dunno. I don't plan on taking this seriously, I honestly just want someone to play with. I guess for being married female, tho I don't care if it's a male character.. I mean I am playing a female character.
Character Race: Miqo’te
Preferred Race: Au’Ra, Miqo’te, Elezen, Hyur
Main Class: Monk
Dislikes: Elitists, salt, not having money, being homeless, not having someone to give random pokes on the nose and hugs too. And alot more serious stuff but I'll let those come out later when we talk. Well also trying to get myself out there cause I SUCK at convos.
Goals for the Game: Get my monk to 70 and learn all I can to become the best.. or try to be. Also I want the moogle dance and shoes. T.T
Goals for the Marriage Union: Someone I can do the contents with and just be a fool with. Life is too serious, there's nothing wrong with being a goof and enjoying life.
Name: Theeo Ayden
Server: Lich
Willing to transfer? I finally got a house, so no.
Personal Interests: MMO, Anime, Tabletop RPGs, Animals, Travels, a lot of things actually.":D
Play schedule: Usually around 18:00 - 01:00 (GMT+2 in summer), more on the week-end.
What kind of gamer are you: I'm logged in a lot but I consider myself an average-ish player and I don't aim at hardcore content. Mostly doing content to have fun and helping.
Player Gender: Male
Character Gender:Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No, I'm a gay male irl so It would be nice if I could befriend another gay male, but befriending a girl or a straight male is very nice too.
Character Race: Miquo'te
Preferred Race:Any. (But if you're into eRP I would prefer not lalafell.":D)
Main class?: Black/Red Mage
Goals for the game: Play the game and have fun.
Goals for the marriage union: Befriend someone to play with, know each other, become friend out of the game too.
Ect.: I'm also into eRP, so if it's your thing too, you're welcome, if it' s not your thing, you're welcome anyway."^^ My motherlanguage is french but I'm very at ease with english.
Server: Cerberus
Willing to transfer? No
Personal Interests: Games, hiking
Play schedule: 19.00 - 23.00 CET ish, more in the summer.
What kind of gamer are you: Love MMOs
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No
Character Race: Mi'qote
Preferred Race: Any
Main class?: BLM (RDM and WHM)
Dislikes: this and that
Goals for the game: Have fun
Goals for the marriage union: To be honest, the wedding shoes is the main reason. And find someone to do some gamethings with.
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One last go before I just chill on the sidelines again for awhile.
Server: Gobbie
Willing to transfer? Doin time. Got a house, and plans for another.
Personal Interests: Manga, oldies and some new. Looking for interesting old movie covers and giving the film a chance. Cartoons/animation, anime, and playing with cats.
Play schedule: Play a lot during the weekdays. Work weekends, so more in the evening. Pacific timeline
What kind of gamer are you? I'm gil chasing at the moment. So hardcore on that, and casually avoiding Suzy and Luke EX.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Would like to meet a female, but not against making friends of any and all standings.
Character Race: Elezen
Preferred Race: Lala, incase of emergencies. But it's not about the looks, as everyone is buttiful.
Main class?: Warrior, trying to get that War Bear 2.0. Plus the benefit of insta ques.
Dislikes: Negative attitude, pushed perfection, uncalled arguments, current WWE storylines, and onions. Sometimes the people on MB that wanna lose gil cause they want it quicker.
Goals for the game: Welp...I'm working on Sam. Bit by bit. I would like to reach 70 across the board like a bad ass no lifer. But my main focus at the momeny is making gil. I just transfered to this server. And I feel as if the few FC's I've seen are all about them numbers. Which is great sometimes for new people. But not for me...I want to actually be able to rely on others and them to rely on me. I've seen a few making claims and such. But the time of experience in the game doesn't match up. I don't want drones, but friends and a family. I want to give twice as much as they might. Just a small dream I've had for awhile...I know it's possible as I was lucky to have been a part of a great FC a couple times similar to them ordeals. Other then that, I wouldn't mind tackling other little things.
Goals for the marriage union: Glam and someone to roll with from time to time. Also so they can let me teleport to them at the top of Kugane Tower.
Etc:I'm fairly laid back. I do sometimes go out of my way to help random people I come across. XD I always assume it could of been me. I am seeking a friend for the game, and don't expect anything further...If miracles happen then that would be awesome. But I mostly would like a friend to do runs with. As one of my flaws is not liking to go alone. XD So I need a sword. For fights against Suzy and Luke EX either forward or backwards.
Discord - Ten Shingai #0935 I might look inactive, so it's best to leave a message. I might be at work. You can always try and add me in game too. Normally just chilling at my house.
Also to add..Cause someone messaged me, and it took a day to notice. Sorry. I don't play on PC. So I don't think discord relays me playing FF. I play on PS4. So sorry to whoever that person may been as they deleted or blocked me the next day before I could reply.
Good luck people. Congrats to the lucky successful peoples.
http://i.imgur.com/kbRZswK.jpg
Nevermind, it's been taken cared of.
I will adopt many potatoes, but I can't justify marrying something that doesn't go past my knees.Quote:
(and prob cuz they look like children)
Server: Cerberus
Willing to transfer? Nope soz
Personal Interests: Vikings,Anime,Tv Shows,Videogames
Play schedule: Depends on my work shifts
What kind of gamer are you: Chill,but also hardcore when needed.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes,girls are preferred tbh
Character Race: Miqo
Preferred Race: Miqo,Au Ra
Main class?: DRG in ARR, BRD in HW,and will be back on DRG for SB
Dislikes: Selfish people,Lags,rolling 1.
Goals for the game: Get full gear,master my main class.
Goals for the marriage union: Having someone to play with,spent time together,kill things together.
Etc: Marriage apart,I will gladly accept friendships from guys aswell.
I'm 24 and my discord is Björn#4830 , feel free to add
I'm italian with a decent english thò
Server: Ultros
Willing to transfer?: Unfortunately no.
Personal Interests: Anime & Video Games.
Play Schedule: Typically around 5 P.M EST
What kind of gamer are you?: Hardcore/Casual
Character Gender: Female
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Preferably female but if you're a girl who prefers to play a male character that's cool with me lol.
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Miqo'te or Au Ra but I'm open to other races as well.
Main Class?: PLD
Dislikes:Fidget SpinnersDishonesty and Arrogance.
Goals for the game:Fan fictionsHaving fun while progressing through the game.
Goals for the marriage union:Role playingGetting to know someone and spending time with them.
Etc. I'm 23 and I'm a mix of Vietnamese/Chinese/Laos.
Discord: Rinku#2440
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uh this tread still exists? haven't seen it in awhile, thou rarely surfing the forums anyway so meh... anyway good luck to anyone using this thread for EB stuff
& no I'll never use this thread but its nice to see ppl do... can't say EB is my thing as was only asked once by RL friend & I said "No" (felt to uncomortable about it)
I dunno. I've been looking for over 6-7 months now and have come up empty. I had a few creepy responses, but that's about it. Most people just want instant gratification and some form of cyber sex (they call it erp to make themselves feel better and sound less taboo) or actually meet up for real sex. I find very few people being content on actually just being a friend, let alone one who would EB and not immediately think that is a free pass inside your pants, pixel or otherwise.
I mean if it ever became more than a friendship after a good while of being with someone, I'm ok with that. But that's not specifically what I'm looking for. Unfortunately that seems to be what 99% of the people here ARE looking for so if you're not willing to call them your "significant other" the moment you meet them, they move on to find someone who will. And that is why relationships don't last.
Funny enough I did find an EB partner for a short bit, but it was someone I happened to meet in game (and not through here). It didn't last long though. I got ditched and there was too much drama over literally nothing.
To be honest, I've completely given up. I don't know how hard you thought it would be, but I've pretty much deemed it impossible.
I must say, the internet does seem to bring out the worst in people (rich coming from me I know, especially with my history here). I know the feeling though. I've had some people come onto me pretty strongly on Louisoix for the ceremony, though in all honesty, I've been through it once and it failed because of me, I'm not 100% convinced I wanna do it again. But if I did, I'd be in the same boat as you. I'd want it to be friendship only (though I would want to run content with them), since I don't want an IRL relationship with anyone currently (trying to focus on my mental health and stuff). I say weight up how much you want to marry vs the stress of what it's causing (if you haven't already), and use that to come to a decision. If you do want to marry though, don't give up! Perhaps your post keeps getting lost in the midst of the other posts. But if you keep trying, you'll eventually find someone.
Server: Ragnarok
Willing to transfer? No way
Personal Interests: Anime Games
Play schedule: All the time :p
What kind of gamer are you: Just the biggest random who does not know how to sleep
Character Gender: Woman
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not really
Character Race: Aora dont really want to change
Preferred Race: All
Main class?: SMN
Dislikes: Arrogant player
Goals for the game: 70 on everything and clear everything that can be cleared
Goals for the marriage union: Just the dress
Etc: Ask me what you need and i'll help u to get it :p
Server:Ultros
Willing to transfer? no sorry
Personal Interests:Games, music, anime, comics, books
Play schedule: im on everyday no specific time :v i play alot
What kind of gamer are you: i've got no idea tbh
Character Gender:Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? not really
Character Race:Au ra
Preferred Race: anything works its not like it changes anything :v
Main class?:i main dark knight but i can also dps
Dislikes: liars, rude people thats as basic as it gets i think :v
Goals for the game: i want someone who wants to play and spend time together talking and sitting doing dungeons, farming and stuff waever works for me
Goals for the marriage union: hopefully to become good friends and hangout together alot and more
Still looking
Server: Ultros
Willing to transfer?: Unfortunately no.
Personal Interests: Anime & Video Games.
Play Schedule: Typically around 5 P.M EST
What kind of gamer are you?: Hardcore/Casual
Character Gender: Female
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Preferably female but if you're a girl who prefers to play a male character that's fine lol.
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Miqo'te or Au Ra but I'm open to other races as well.
Main Class?: PLD
Dislikes: Dishonesty and Arrogance.
Goals for the game: Having fun while progressing through the game.
Goals for the marriage union: Getting to know someone and spending time with them.
Etc. I'm 23 and I'm a mix of Vietnamese/Chinese/Laos.
Discord: Rinku#2440