I think most Duskwight go for the look I have, namely the lighter skin.
I do see darker skin from time to time, but more often on males and less often on females (and on my server I'm not sure if it's meant seriously, as it usually is accompanied by makeup options that can at best be called garish).
Our heads a little bit too small, and they could have done the neck elongation a bit smoother, but that's it, really. Everything else is just lanky-ness, which is totally fine.