Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

Hoping everyone find that special someone. Valentines event starts Thursday:

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Originally Posted by Bixillarla

Hoping everyone find that special someone. Valentines event starts Thursday:

http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodest...602.1464832478

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Honestly I've never paid attention to that day and never will. Why should it be different that the other day? Like, you HAVE to show how you love the other on this day especially, or you HAVE to find someone on this day. Sorry but love is a full time activity and is not something you force.

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Originally Posted by Amnesiac

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Well I've never been able to get behind the common belief due to the fact that I'm surrounded by female gamers. In my FC, linkshells, etc. I've seen plenty of guys in female characters of course but none of them had ill-intent playing them. Straight, gay, bisexual, any(all are in my FC).

As I said before, I think it's the matchmaking environments that brings these kinds of people.

Take for instance this thread. Everyone is fishing. Doesn't have to be bad fishing but fishing. You make a profile to make yourself attractive to someone else in hopes you get a bite. So like a dating website, sadly people can do whatever it takes to make their profile attractive.

That just happens when it comes to these things.

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Server: Balmung
Willing to Transfer?: Possibly. All of my friends are here on this server and I would feel bad leaving them for someone I just met. My moving would depend on overall compatibility.
Personal Interests: Gaming, RPing in game, Spending time with close friends, Drawing, Brushing up on my Lovecraft mythos, being generally nerdy
Play Schedule: I'm normally on a little after 5 pm Pacific Time due to my work schedule and am normally unavailable on some Wednesdays and Sundays.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual, Role Player, mid core if pressed
Character Gender: Male, Male IRL
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Not at all. I like to RP anyhow so personality is what interests me most. You can be male, female, trans, or gender fluid. At the end of the day we're both strangers outside of the game anyway. I'll treat you with respect if you offer me the same courtesy.
Character Race: Hyur Highlander, I also have a Female Au'Ra, Male Miqo'te, and Female Midlander if anyone has a preference for any of those.
Preferred Race: Any. I must admit I do lean more towards the 'cute' aesthetics that certain races have to compliment my characters more gruff exterior but i'm really open to whatever race/gender combination. Be what makes you comfortable! I'll not have any issue with it. My RP options in this respect are as flexible as well.
Main Class: Paladin
Dislikes: Inconsiderate people, Condescending people, Dishonesty, People who only want to ERP
Goals for the Game: Having as much fun as possible and creating great memories.
Goals for Marriage: Above all else, a good friendship. I'd love to run content with someone or just shoot the breeze. Be aware that i'm unfortunately not interested in more than a friendship right now as I'm in a relationship IRL and would not like to, essentially, be cheating on them. However, if you would like to RP the married life or anything leading up to it, that's something i'd be more than happy to do -- just please don't take it as confirmation for anything more than friendship outside of the RP.

Etc. : I have a Discord for those interested, MarcouQ #0089, and I do use it -- but i'd much prefer if I got /tells in game before using a voice chat service. If you're however on a different server Discord would possibly be the only way to contact me outside of the game. I will use it without hesitation should that be the case.

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Originally Posted by MarcouQ

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That's people like you who make me wanna live in Ala Mhigo.

Server: Balmung
Willing to transfer? Maybe
Personal Interests: Movies, video games, books and music.
Play schedule: Roughly 12am to 5am EST
What kind of gamer are you: Casual I suppose
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not really.
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: No actual preference.
Main class?: WHM, AST or SCH.
Dislikes: Can't think of any atm.
Goals for the game: No clear goals atm, pretty much up for anything.
Goals for the marriage union: Just looking for someone to play the game with and talk to really.
Etc: I don't RP or ERP. I'm up for anything really, raids or pvp or dungeons. My discord is Aidivni#0541 and my IGN on Balmung is Miyuki Mew.

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Originally Posted by MarcouQ

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Do you have discord? :'D

Hey? Do you use any chat services? Would enjoy talking.

Looking for someone to do the Platinum Ceremony with for the items.
Server:
Willing to transfer? No
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No
Character Race: Au'Ra
Preferred Race: Any
Main class?: WHM

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Originally Posted by Arutan

That's people like you who make me wanna live in Ala Mhigo.

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Thats very kind of you to say. Thank you!

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Originally Posted by Valentine-R

Do you have discord? :'D

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I actually don't have one set up. My FC has been asking me to do it too, so I definitely can. :P

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Originally Posted by Ruslan

Hey? Do you use any chat services? Would enjoy talking.

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I'm sorry, who was this directed to? :)

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Originally Posted by Dashik007

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Added you through Discord and would love to meet another person from Cerberus to hang out with! :D

Going to try this again

Server: Balmung

Willing to transfer? No

Personal Interests: Gundam Model Kits, Older JRPGs, Cosplay, Cooking, Writing, Rune Factory, and RP

Play schedule: Flexible until 2:00 AM EST

What kind of gamer are you: Casual

Character Gender: Male

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No

Character Race: Hyur - Midlander

Preferred Race: Any Female Race is fine

Main class?: Summoner iLv 258

Dislikes: Elitists, Any form of Race Superiority, People not tipping me for High Level Crafting or Penta Melding Materia, and People bailing after a Farming Party just for a Wonderous Tails entry

Goals for the game: Become Omnicrafter before 4.0 along with getting my Botanist and Fisher to 60

Goals for the marriage union: To have it last Long Term with minimal conflict

Etc: I prefer to not do anything from ARR unless its CT or Coil, I can pay for the $20 Plan

Server: Cerberus
Willing to transfer?: I like my FC so probably not.
Personal Interests: Video games, music, photography and graphic design.
Play schedule: GMT Evenings and large chunks of the weekend.
Character Race: Miq - see portrait/lodestone for more info :)
Main class: Paladin currently, used to be Dragoon.
Goals for the game: Looking for some new people to hang out and do content with as I just returned from a bit of a break and my friends list is looking a little small right now :)

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Originally Posted by Unkn0wnSoul

Server: Leviathan
Willing to transfer? No I like my FC & have friends on the server.
Personal Interests: Music, gaming, anime.
Play schedule: Usually on daily but times can vary with work & other stuff. (GMT timezone)
What kind of gamer are you: Casual I'd say.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes I'd prefer female players.
Character Race: Au Ra Raen but thinking of changing although no idea what yet.
Preferred Race: Any race is fine.
Main class?: Black Mage.
Dislikes: Rudeness, elitist people.
Goals for the game: To eventually clear Alexander Savage since I finally have all jobs at 60.
Goals for the marriage union: Someone to have fun playing the game with.
Etc: Not really sure what else to add so if anyone wants to contact me then shoot a /tell at Unknown Soul' or on Discord at Unknown Soul#0510.

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Just reposting.

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Originally Posted by Amaethal

Hiya everyone, it's been about 3-4 weeks sense I meet my Plushie on here. I just wanted to give a big thank you to the creator of this thread.

Don't give up though everyone! Eventually someone will come along and it will all have been worth the wait. We just got married and we absolutely enjoy every moment we have together.

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Omg, my heart. :'> Congrats guys!

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Originally Posted by Cleftobismal

Server: Mateus Balmung


Willing to transfer? No, I like it here. It's quite peaceful since the population is low. I'll consider it. Yes. Not right now. Unless you wan't to pay for it. Wahahahahahahahha

Personal Interests: Yaoi. Yaoi. Yaoi. And more Yaoi. And anime + gaming of course. \o\ Therefore /o/ I'm looking for a Male X Male.

Play schedule: Depends. Am active a lot and prefer to be on FFXIV when I'm not working/studying. [-6:00 GMT Central Standard] I can be on day, nights, or even both.

What kind of gamer are you: Hard core, or at-least try I to find the time to. I tend to be a lot "nicer" and patient to those who are struggling with the fight's. It doesn't make sense to me to be so demoralizing. It effects everyone's game-play.

Character Gender: Male

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I do. Yaoi can only be done if its a MXM. Bwahahahha.

Character Race: Miqo'te

Preferred Race: Any but Lalafell. Sorry. :< It just doesn't spark my Yaoi interest. Au Ra = 600% Bonus Success Rate

Main class?: Used to be SCH. Now AST. Although I play between my DRK and SMN a lot.

Dislikes: Everything we do on the internet is open game for criticism and opinions. Yet, it gets a bit tiring when the arguments are nothing but two children being a smart mouth to each other. Thus petty fights ensues. I'm not fond of those.

Goals for the game: To have a lot of fun of course! And End Game. Lots of raids and savages and animas oh my.

Goals for the marriage union: Companionship. Someone I can be with and around. I am open to moving a relationship IRL. We'll see.

Etc: I have the tendency to be blunt. At the same time I'm open minded and honest. Respectful to an extent but prefers to be a listener. [If I'm also being listened to if I speak wahahahhaha] Also I'm 22. IRL age does matter to me, so ye must be at-least 18+. Don't be shy if you are brand new to the game.

If you wish to get a hold of me outside the game.

Discord: Cleftobismal#1046

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Foooreeeeevaaaa seearching /o/

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Originally Posted by Cleftobismal

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You might have better luck by clarifying who you are and what it is you're looking for. From what you've posted, I can't tell if you're a gay guy or just a girl with a yaoi obsession. Or even if you're looking for a relationship or an RP partner.

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Originally Posted by Lunaxia

You might have better luck by clarifying who you are and what it is you're looking for. From what you've posted, I can't tell if you're a gay guy or just a girl with a yaoi obsession. Or even if you're looking for a relationship or an RP partner.

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Out of all the vague re-bumps you've picked mine as being the less detailed.


The Yaoi Miqote is not amused.

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Originally Posted by Cleftobismal

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Not sure this is a good idea puting that kind of gif. You know, epileptic people.

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Originally Posted by Cleftobismal

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It was the first one I saw.

But vagueness won't be your friend here, if you're that desperate for a partner.

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Originally Posted by Arutan

Not sure this is a good idea puting that kind of gif. You know, epileptic people.

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You were saying? :>

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Originally Posted by Lunaxia

It was the first one I saw.

But vagueness won't be your friend here, if you're that desperate for a partner.

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*Yawn

No one has time for drama here. Let's keep at-least this thread less about me. Following me just to say things like "Desperate for a partner" is pouring oil on the fire. Shame on you.




Moving on:


If you would like to know more about me, rather than cluttering this thread. I am reachable by Discord as posted in my bumps ~

Cleftobismal#1046

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Originally Posted by Vivi_Bushido

Server: Balmung

Willing to transfer? No (But I am willing to make an alt)

Personal Interests: Video games, Anime, cooking, plant life/gardening, and socializing

Play schedule: Afternoons into the late nights.

What kind of gamer are you: Hardcore

Character Gender: Female

Etc: I play a lot, so I don't mean to sound harsh or picky, but I want my EB partner to be into endgame like me. I want someone to do endgame stuff with. I'm really into the idea of completing content together and progressing together, so if you're a Savage raider, that would be a huge plus! However it's not a requirement. Male or Female Au Ra is also a huge plus. If male Au Ra, I prefer mine to look edgy! I also find that same race couples are super cute! <3

My Discord is Icire#3466

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Hey I'm currently looking for friends in Balmung so I thought we could add each other and run stuff sometime?

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Originally Posted by Cleftobismal

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It was advice, and here's some more: throwing around the victim card when you hear something you don't want to hear is also not very attractive.

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Originally Posted by Lunaxia

It was advice, and here's some more: throwing around the victim card when you hear something you don't want to hear is also not very attractive.

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Don't bother. Every other page will tell you all you need to know.

http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...Nightmare%29-o

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Man, these forums are almost getting as bad as the Bungie forums.

Also, I am no longer looking for someone.

Geesh 7,143 replies. This thread has come a loong way. /o/

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Originally Posted by Cleftobismal

Geesh 7,143 replies. This thread has come a loong way. /o/

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Agreed! I'm surprised how many there are lol. Do you mind if I add you in-game, or chat on discord with you? Purely as friends or such. :'>

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Originally Posted by Valentine-R

Agreed! I'm surprised how many there are lol. Do you mind if I add you in-game, or chat on discord with you? Purely as friends or such. :'>

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Strange, I thought you were already on my discord? Or I could be mixing you up with another z_z. I do have a lot of people from this thread on my discord.

Discord: Cleftobismal#1046

Server: Faerie

Willing to Transfer?: No, <3 my FC, but would be willing to make a new character on Faerie or your server if you want to level up together.

My Interests: FFXIV Anime, More FFXIV, Star Wars, and even more FFXIV. Have I mentioned FFXIV?

Play Schedule: I tend to be on between 8am and 11am on weekdays. Weekends the time varies depending on what I have going on.

My Player type: Pretty casual. I like to hang out and have fun. I just don't have the time really to be hardcore

Character Gender: Female character, Guy IRL. My best friend was a lesbian, so my characters were female to make her more comfortable around me. They will continue to be to honor her memory.

Other players gender: Doesn't really matter. I'm more comfortable around women than I am around other guys, though, and enjoy just cuddling (as in sitting right next to each other) if it's a lady. Just don't feel right doing that with another guy LOL.

My Race:Au Ra

Preferred Race: Not Lalafell (that's just creepy, no pedo!). I do like Felezen though. Long legs are yummy. LOL

Main Classes: DRK, or any tank class, but DRK mainly.

Dislikes: Dishonesty, and emotional manipulation. And sports. Don't really like sports, so don't expect any deep conversations on that. But I'm pretty easy going and a lot of things don't particularly bother me

Game Goals: To have fun (isn't that why we're all playing after all?)

Goals for the marriage: Someone to hang out with and have a good time with

Reachability: Leave me a message here or message me in game (Vyralia Vydan or Vystia Vyx are the characters I'm usually on, though I tend to be in PotD a lot when I'm on). I have discord (Vyralia#6460). Mic is broken too, need to get a new one. *sadness :'(*

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Willing to transfer? Saga´s tail-o-copter enables him to travel great distances for the right person ( Or a bucket of fishies <3 )
Personal Interests: Videogames, History&Science, Anime, Books, Cooking, Traveling, pets, choco chip cookies.
Play schedule: Evenings/Nights GTM/CET
What kind of gamer are you: Sweet, cute and casual is what keeps this kitty´s heart warm :3 Glamours, exploration, crafting and sightseeing is a must!
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes. I admit i have a hard time relating to other males D:
Character Race: Miqo´te
Preferred Race: Lalafell (What >w< They are adorable!) But i would never impose my personal preference to my partner.
Main class: DRK/ARM
Dislikes: e-SJW´s, Liars, badass/1337 people, raisin cookies that look like choco-chip cookies.
Goals for the game: I spend most of my gaming time crafting gear for new and returning players alike. I also love to explore, find beautiful screenshot spots and making new friends <3
Goals for the marriage union: I would really love to meet someone i can grow to trust and consider a true, close friend both in and out of the game :3

Etc:

While my overall personality is sweet and soft, even a bit girly at times, i am still a complex human being with a variety of emotions and moods, and not every day will be sunshine, smiles and cutesy. >w< I feel i need to point this out due to past encounters, when this apparently came as a surprise :3

I would also like to point out that since i am a full fledged adult, i would rather avoid pairing up with people under the age of 21.

This is not because i have any secondary intention but because i find that i relate much better to people closer to my own age and stage in life, as it is natural.

Finally, DO remember that i am an European player :3

I will not deny friendship and even partnership to US players but do make sure that you are willing to work with different time-zones and schedules before contacting me!

You can contact me on discord: Saga Sugarpaws#9259

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Server: Leviathan
Willing to transfer? No
Personal Interests: RPGS, Reading, Anime
Play schedule: Weekday Evening EST Player
What kind of gamer are you: Mid-Core Raider
Character Gender: Female (IRL Male)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No
Character Race: Roegadyn
Preferred Race: (F) Roegadyn, (F) Au'ra, (F) Hyur
Main class?: WAR/DRK/PLD
Dislikes: Overly Sensitive People
Goals for the game: Clear all content before new patch.
Goals for the marriage union: Chill on TS/Disc laugh about things, Clear Content
Etc: Just looking to find someone to log in with and have some fun socially with possibly play other games with me and my Gaming Clan.

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UPDATE POST

I know it wasn't that long ago i posted my ad thingy, But i wanna add and redo a couple of things.

Server:Balmung
Willing to transfer? No, enjoy my FC, Sorry!
Personal Interests:Video Games, Youtube, Roleplaying, Talking to friends, Anime, Roleplaying, etc
Play schedule:Normally Evenings, I do play other games with my PSN friend as well so i may not always be on, But i plan on getting on more often, and we can also schedule times too :).
What kind of gamer are you: Relaxed, I wanna do certain stuff if i am in the mood, But otherwise I'm only hardcore when need to be.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No
Character Race: lalafell
Preferred Race: Any! (prefer Lala though, but do not let this stop you!)
Main class?: Thaumaturge
Dislikes: none really, As long as your not rude or mean and are willing to talk to me, We will be fine.
Goals for the game: To get to lvl 50 soon and get some nice cloths to take pictures with.
Goals for the marriage union: To find someone that will enjoy being with me and willing to talk and spend time with me :).
Etc: I would like people to know that i am Male IRL and i don't mind if a person is male or female!.

I would love to chat and get to know someone that is willing to talk to me and have fun, Hope fully get to know me on a personal level and maybe something deeper will come from it.

I will easily accept good friends if thats all you want the marriage thing for, But i would love if it was a bit deeper :).

As for the roleplaying, I have never roleplayed in game, But i would love if someone would like to teach me and what not, I do roleplay online so i know the general stuff.

i hope to find someone before the Valentine event ends so maybe we can get pictures of it together :D

here is a couple of ways to contact me if you like :)

Discord: Ruslan Susalan #4914
Kik: DbzDashie


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Character Name: Stephanie Dola
Server: Leviathan
Willing to transfer? Maybe. Not to Balmung.
Personal Interests: Video games, Reading, Netflix, Anime.
Play schedule: Very inconsistent. Sometimes all day long. Some days only a couple hours.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual. Social.
Character Gender: Female. IRL Female also.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No. Male or Female doesn't matter.
Character Race: Highlander.
Preferred Race: Any.
Main class?: Ninja.
Dislikes: Liars. Meanies.
Goals for the game: Make friends, and memories.
Goals for the marriage union: I would ideally like to become very close with my EB partner. Best friend status. Long talks about anything and everything.
Discord: Steph#3974

Server: Faerie

Willing to Transfer?: No, <3 my FC, but would be willing to make a new character on Faerie or your server if you want to level up together.

My Interests: FFXIV Anime, More FFXIV, Star Wars, and even more FFXIV. Have I mentioned FFXIV?

Play Schedule: I tend to be on between 8am and 11am on weekdays. Weekends the time varies depending on what I have going on.

My Player type: Pretty casual. I like to hang out and have fun. I just don't have the time really to be hardcore

Character Gender: Female character, Guy IRL. My best friend was a lesbian, so my characters were female to make her more comfortable around me. They will continue to be to honor her memory.

Other players gender: Doesn't really matter. I'm more comfortable around women than I am around other guys, though, and enjoy just cuddling (as in sitting right next to each other) if it's a lady. Just don't feel right doing that with another guy LOL.

My Race:Au Ra

Preferred Race: Not Lalafell (that's just creepy, no pedo!). I do like Felezen though. Long legs are yummy. LOL

Main Classes: DRK, or any tank class, but DRK mainly.

Dislikes: Dishonesty, and emotional manipulation. And sports. Don't really like sports, so don't expect any deep conversations on that. But I'm pretty easy going and a lot of things don't particularly bother me

Game Goals: To have fun (isn't that why we're all playing after all?)

Goals for the marriage: Someone to hang out with and have a good time with

Reachability: Leave me a message here or message me in game (Vyralia Vydan or Vystia Vyx are the characters I'm usually on, though I tend to be in PotD a lot when I'm on). I have discord (Vyralia#6460). Mic is broken too, need to get a new one. *sadness :'(*

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UPDATE POST

I know it wasn't that long ago i posted my ad thingy, But i wanna add and redo a couple of things.

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There is going to be a little RP event that me and a few fellow FC members are going to be hosting at our FC house in The Mist later today (6pm PT). An open bar/restaurant night. If it interests you i'd love it if you could come by for a little while so we can chat and have a bit of fun with others too!

Discord: MarcouQ #0089

Server: Excalibur

Willing to transfer? No! My FC would kill me.

Personal Interests: Firearms, anime, Rock & Roll, fishing, car and bike shows, etc...

Play schedule: Around 7AM CST till ???

What kind of gamer are you: It varies. Was Semi hardcore in WoW and currently casual / semi hardcore now.

Character Gender: Female character, but Male IRL. Would be willing to gender change if needed.

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Would want a female character and player.

Character Race: Miqo'te, but would be willing to change. Potato is not an option.

Preferred Race: Miqo'te, Au Ra, Hyur, or Elezen.

Main class?: BRD/ WAR

Dislikes: Liars, self centered people, Rap, and violence. I'm sure there's a few more that I'm forgetting.

Goals for the game: Try and keep up with current content.

Goals for the marriage union: Make a new friend and someone to play the game with.

Feel free to contact me here or send an in game mail.

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There is going to be a little RP event that me and a few fellow FC members are going to be hosting at our FC house in The Mist later today (6pm PT). An open bar/restaurant night. If it interests you i'd love it if you could come by for a little while so we can chat and have a bit of fun with others too!

Discord: MarcouQ #0089

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Hey! I'm so sorry! i did not see your post until just now, I was not home :( sorry about that, I sent you a friend request on Discord.

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Character Name: Stephanie Dola
Server: Leviathan
Willing to transfer? Maybe. Not to Balmung.
Personal Interests: Video games, Reading, Netflix, Anime.
Play schedule: Very inconsistent. Sometimes all day long. Some days only a couple hours.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual. Social.
Character Gender: Female. IRL Female also.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No. Male or Female doesn't matter.
Character Race: Highlander.
Preferred Race: Any.
Main class?: Ninja.
Dislikes: Liars. Meanies.
Goals for the game: Make friends, and memories.
Goals for the marriage union: I would ideally like to become very close with my EB partner. Best friend status. Long talks about anything and everything.
Discord: Steph#3974

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I like what I read and what I like to get to know you and see where it can go.

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I like what I read and what I like to get to know you and see where it can go.

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Feel free to add me on discord.

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Feel free to add me on discord.

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what is your discord