Still single though
*cries*
:'(
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Still single though
*cries*
:'(
You know I don't know why I bother with this shit anymore?
You end up meeting someone or making a new friend or something like that then they contact you or you contact them on some sort of social media then you add them as a friend on that social media you talk to them for a little bit and you think things are going well and then out of nowhere they just stop talking too you and you don't know why so you keep on saying things like "hi" and "how are you" but yet you still get no response from them at all then a couple of days go by and you still don't hear from them so you start thinking that it was something that you said or did that made them just stop talking till it gets to the point where you just say "fuck it" if they don't want to talk too me then fine then you end up getting all pissed off and removing them as a friend on that social media that you added them on in the first dam place and once again it gets to the point of where you begin asking yourself "why do I bother with doing this dam shit anymore if it's just always going to turn out like this every dam time for"
I apologize for this little outburst it's just very frustrating when this kind of stuff happpens and you don't know why?
Especially for someone like me who suffers from depression and anxiety and all you can think about that it was all your fault that you said or did something too make the other person just all of sudden just stop talking too you?
It just makes me wanna cry sometimes :'(
not ur fault tho, i met some of ppl like that too
not your fault Hailey I've gotten that myself if they can't take the time to talk to you or even message you first sometimes then clearly their not interested in a friendship/relationship so just move on from them cause as said they can't take the time to try shouldn't waste your on them.
Thanks you two I appreciate the sentiment
Is it wrong of me just wanting to meet a nice girl?
I understand how you're feeling, but you're overreacting a little. You don't know what might have happened in their lives or how they may be feeling right now.
Alternatively, perhaps you spent a lot of time chatting together, and they may have just wanted some distance. Don't read too much into it, sometimes people are fickle, and sometimes things don't click.
Aww Hailey! that's really sad to hear! I really hope that things do pick up and that you do find that one you're looking for..
and this goes to everyone who reads, My box is open for anyone to contact me and chat! I may still be a little shy but getting out of my comfort zone is my goal and I want to befriend everyone who i cross paths with!
If it makes you feel better. The reason why I server transferred to Balmung was because somebody from this thread contacted my discord. Wanted me to move to balmung as they will be going there to. Then the moment I xfered he was like "Oh I need to see if most of my friends will also transfer". I'm like okay I'll wait, no biggie and I'll transfer again if needed.
Neeewwwwwwwp
The guy went full mute for reasons I don't know why. I don't mind if someone loses an interest in me, but at-least have the balls to say so lol. R.I.P Server Xfer fee.
But yes don't spam messages. I messaged him once with an "Ello". And left it like that. I didn't message him for another four days and then asked if everything is okay since its been three days of silence. I left it to the benefit of the doubt since it was the holidays and he's prolly seeing family or some IRL events.
Newp.
Three more days of silence while his discord flashes online and offline.
You will find people who resort to an all time low who can't even muster up the guts to say "This isn't Mutual to me". Or something simple. This should be a red flag for you anyways to find somebody else as that individual prolly had other things in mind.
This person ends up contacting me on discord saying that they saw my post and they sent me a friend request on discord so I ended up adding them and this was only a couple of days ago like on Thursday I think
So anyway we got too talking for like a day or two and then all of a sudden they go all quiet and I don't hear from them for a few days
So I end up texting them and saying like "hi, how are you?"
Still nothing
And like with you there Clefto Bismal I watched too see there discord go from online to offline over the past couple of days that they weren't saying anything
You know I can understand if they were busy with something and what not
But at least tell me so I could put my mind at ease
So I am not constantly thinking that it was something that I might have said or did to make them go all quiet like that
Still looking
Server: Exculibar
Willing to transfer:Yes, but mostly likely Balmung or Gil, prefer more popular server
Personal Interests: chillin around in game , do emotes & take pics etc.
Play schedule: Mostly night or midnight est time
What kind of gamer are you: Super Casual
Character Gender: Male
Gender:Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?Yes,Prefer girls
Character Race: Miqo"te male
Preferred Race: Miqo'te/Au/lala girl
Main class?: Mnk
Dislikes: rude people and people always blaming others
Goals for the game: Have fun and realx
Goals for the marriage union: A partner to play and talk with everyday, a little romance is good for me.
Etc: my discord is Miraino Torankusu#3478 and my line is mirai.no.torankusu is u are interest in contract me, i would check the reply in forum but not very often
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Please stopping spamming this thread Hailey, if you want to discuss the people you meet do it in private. Right now you are burying people that are posting and actually trying to find their partner with your useless spam. We don't want to hear about your irl problems, get some help instead.
I am not scary.
http://i64.tinypic.com/t0i0c8.gif
I'm pretty.
Tonberry is over run by Lalas...LIke this cutie here :3
http://i.imgur.com/ByjaotH.png
Heyo~
I thought I might add this here as well seeing there seems to be heaps of people communicating via Discord. There is a large Discord server for FFXIV that was created by the Reddit community and is managed by Moderators from Reddit as well.
Link for details
It has people from all servers on it as well, maybe you might find your special someone on there? maybe you won't? either way it will serve as a great channel for you to interact with other players from in and around your server and around the world.
Good luck and have fun!
Oh I'll also add that someone has/is developing a social network for FFXIV
https://linkshell.online
Some details here
see how that works
Come on over to Hyperion sometime! We have lots of cute Lalas!
http://i.imgur.com/BfPjUTr.jpg
Unfortunately its just life. Try not to have such high expectations right off the bat. Try making more than one acquaintance, take it slow......Acquaintance, gaming buddies, friendship, etc... Try not to set yourself up to be hurt. And honestly try not to take it so personal. Be the best you that you can be.......Don't blame yourself. I wish you happiness Hailey.
I hardly see anyone from Gilgamesh nowadays