FFXIV Girls only discord server

I identify as my toon. I'm now going to go do quests with a giant axe and I expect everyone around me to offer rewards for my crazy behavior.

What I do not get is we do not have to agree or understand, but by no means do we have to mock others for how they identify. Seems like the movement at the core sparks hurtful behavior towards others which I do not get.

To be honest, I 100% get the wish for a female-only space. I disagree, but you do you. I've seen how some cretins talk to my partner when she plays (all these blokes are self-confessed feminists/allies hilariously enough), so yeah, I get it. The whole voice test thing is bloody hilarious though. I sing, so I can make my voice very feminine when I want to. Likewise, I know a lot of women with deep as hell voices, like Peter Steele I'm telling you. So I could easily pass as a woman whereas my deep voiced woman friends (all female at birth if it even matters) wouldn't. Gets the noggin joggin :3

I'd just like to point out how the joke thread about the boys club has absolutely 0 issues whatsover-and it's not because it's a joke. If it were being serious it'd still have 0 issues, 0 objections, 0 outrage whatsoever. Just a fun little thing to think about. Little cute consistent pattern there.
Rest easy everyone, you fought well.

That doesn't look like a "safe space" at all if you look at the 2nd link and scroll down to October 14th, there's a conversation with a 14 year old that looks a lot like grooming behavior.

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Originally Posted by SahreeYurblu

That doesn't look like a "safe space" at all if you look at the 2nd link and scroll down to October 14th, there's a conversation with a 14 year old that looks a lot like grooming behavior.

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It's discord. Of course there's grooming. It's like being shocked by fake virtue on twitter, or getting a family harassed by identifying the wrong guy as a terrorist on reddit, or being over 60 on facebook. Comes with the territory.

People, especially groups that are more prone to harassment and the like, seeking safe spaces is a definitively okay thing to do, nothing wrong with it.

However, in this particular case it seems like it is done wrongly.

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Originally Posted by SahreeYurblu

That doesn't look like a "safe space" at all if you look at the 2nd link and scroll down to October 14th, there's a conversation with a 14 year old that looks a lot like grooming behavior.

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Going through the links it looks a lot like the stereotypical pettiness, superficial, cess pool of drama one would expect

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Originally Posted by SahreeYurblu

That doesn't look like a "safe space" at all if you look at the 2nd link and scroll down to October 14th, there's a conversation with a 14 year old that looks a lot like grooming behavior.

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I didn't bother with some of the links when I first came here but decided to look at more given what you said. There is one particular part that is very very unsettling to say the least.

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Originally Posted by ThunderGodThor

It's discord. Of course there's grooming. It's like being shocked by fake virtue on twitter, or getting a family harassed by identifying the wrong guy as a terrorist on reddit, or being over 60 on facebook. Comes with the territory.

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You are diminishing a very serious and illegal activity with your flippant response.

No one is saying you should be surprised but your "eh it happens" attitude is alarming.

Yea not touching this thread with a ten foot pole again. What it's promoting is cursed.

Is it just run by a bunch of men trying to get laid?