Quit acting like a spoiled child. Learn to read end dates for events. Don't make assumptions that everything will be the same as before, even if "it's always been like that".
Events will go much smoother for you if you do.
People pointing out a very basic fact of life - learn to read, take self responsibility to inform yourself - is not being condescending or rude. I deal with people like you all the time at work, who act like somehow it's the worker's/company's fault when you don't take the time to read fine print and inform yourself. Grow up and stop expecting spoon feeding.
