That reminds me, I think it was this Monday. I queue up as DRG for level 50 roulette and I get Sastasha HM. So, the tank was doing small pulls at first, but healer and the two of us DPS went ahead looking for more. The tank started to follow us. So, the guys was 1k of HP ahead of me but I didn't check his gear. We get to the first boss and both the BRD and myself go ham.
I get aggro.
Checking our emnity bars, I see I'm first and the bard is second, then a good chunk after is the PLD. Well, maybe he lagged or something or did a very bad opener. But nope, I see FoF, the str debuff on the boss. Ok, the boss kills me, kills the bard, nukes the healer and finally the PLD. We go in again: The same, I get aggro, we all die again.
Out of curiosity, I check his gear: Ilvl 36 weapon, Ilvl 38ish accs, few level 50 pieces. I advice the tank to get better gear, even buying it from NPCs. The BRD gives him a couple of ideas and so the healer, how he can improve his ilvl. The tank decides by himself that he should leave so we could get a better tank. I must admit, that made me feel guilty, but he was right.
Since I main tank, I decide to leave the instance and re-queue roulette in progress as a tank. I do so but... I GET IN AMDAPOR KEEP NM INSTEAD, in progress!!! So I was honest with them: "Guys, I queued up to help another party but I ended up here. " Well, they also needed my help, so I decided to stay and help them complete the dungeon, since the healer was new and he wanted to clear. The run was smooth, some jokes here and there, we get a clear and everything is gucci.
