Goad is an ability that needs to be judged by the ninja in the moment.
My priority goes:
1. Tanks (if they ask for it), especially wars.
2. Mnk/Drg/Nin depending on how long the fight will be going on for.
3. Brd if there isn't any melee dps in the party and a tank doesn't ask for it.
I'm on board with a lot of the tanks saying they shouldn't have to ask. Though at the same time, since I also tank, it's not difficult to realize that dps do have quite a bit to worry about (contrary to popular belief) and it would really help to maybe remind the ninja to use it.
As people get more used to the class you'll see it used more regularly.
Until then, help them out. Ninja is convoluted to a lot of people, as a lot think the rotation is hard.
