Suggestion about friends list.

I am aware this has probably been brought up before, but please make it so when you delete "Friends" you get deleted from their list as well.

I've had to report twice in the last week because of harassment by people who know when I am online, and decide to use it to their advantage, I would prefer to not NEED to be constantly on busy status in-game just because of this behavior.

Or at least make it so you have the option to only be messaged by certain groups (IE- Free Company and people on your own friends list.)

Since this sort of harrassment is happening through disposable alts, and name change/server transfer doesn't work, i'm stuck being busy forever, or deleting all of my characters, which isn't exactly a nice position.

Just a follow up: Since I first sent in a report I did not receive any contact from the GM's besides the standard response, and considering said harasser still has the ability to send follow requests on the lodestone, i'm guessing nothing was ever done.

Considering the emotional/mental stress I have incurred during this, resulting in me losing my job and seeking counselling, and responding per SE's own rules regarding harassment: This is obstructing my experience and fun of the game, and since there is no where for me to go to get away from this in-game as well as the money I wasted on name change and world transfer which didn't help, I have just uninstalled FFXIV.

Further suggestions:
Allow the ability to hide or remove your lodestone character page.
Mutual friend deletion, if you delete them, then you shouldn't be on their list either.
Account blocking rather, or as well as character block.

I know this may or may not be taken seriously, but please value your players privacy more.