Recruit-a-friend Oversight
So, I invited a friend to FFXIV. He was all excited. Then he tells me "Hey, I can't get on your server."
I get that there are server character creation restrictions. But, SE, you are trying to get people to play your game. I don't think a friend wants to be recruited to play on a different server than my own.
The concept of having a friend play on your server and getting around the server restrictions was solved in FFXI by the cumbersome method of the friend code that you could buy in game for 1000 or 2000 gil. You'd think with 11-12 years experience now with MMOs, they'd find a better way than me telling my friend "Sorry, just keep refreshing the page every three minutes and cross your fingers."
The recruitment code that they got during the recruit-a-friend process should streamline them right to my server.