Sigh, major raiding issues in my FC.

My FC treats me like trash and only asks me to do coil when it is convenient for them. So 3/4 the time I end up having to raid alone.

And yesterday I logged in and asked if we were raiding today, and someone in my raid group said no, because we were waiting on a married couple.

So I log in today and wait a while and finally the raid leader came on TeamSpeak, and I told him I was waiting for raid time (and numerous times I have told him I have lost loot because I have to fight PuG tanks for loot because I don't static with one unless I raid with them), then he tells me, they already cleared T4...WHAT!?

He said they decided (again) yesterday after I logged they should raid..So yet again I have to queue solo and fight tanks for loot.

I am almost to the point of leaving them, because I have hinted numerous times to the raid leader this problem, and he just doesn't give a crap. I don't even see why he doesn't wait for me, we can 1 shot T1-T4.

I am pissed.

Befriended with other PLDs or WARs, ask them to team up with you whenever you want to do Coil.

Sounds like you either need a new FC/server or to form your own static.

They totally need a "Dear Abby" section on these forums.

I raid with PUGS, I dont even have FC.

It's time to leave... FC's are like jobs... When your struggling to hit your goals its time for a change... My FC has 8 raid groups currently and were creating a 9th... Go somewhere better add your friends to your friends list... Your welcome

If they're not looking out for the welfare of their own members, it's high time you leave them. If they do not feel you are worth their time to entertain, they are not worth your time either. Good luck finding nicer people out there.

I'm sorry? But it should be fairly obvious. They don't like you. Either because you're not good enough at your role or they just don't like you personally. Find others to raid with that DO like you

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Originally Posted by bokchoykn

They totally need a "Dear Abby" section on these forums.

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It'll be "Dear Bokky" then!

@OP: Leave 'em. They don't seem to appreciate you - and there's probably little that you can do. Don't fall into the battered-raider-syndrome.

"But the FC/leader can be nice. He sometimes gives me loot and the buffs are good."

:(

Why you sticking around if you're being treated like trash? Lot's of other FC, Linkshells to join man.