Common Courtesy

[Zyeriis]

Isnt this a game built around common courtesy though?

You try to do an NM, others are already there. Both groups take turns.

Not a good comparison (also, not everyone waits their turn like you would hope). He said he'd give you a chance not that if it dropped that you could keep it without being lotted against. If anything, he gave you a concession, you merely misunderstood the concession. By agreeing to that concession, you agreed to let other people, also have that concession, should the item have dropped on your orb. What he did was common courtesy.

Side Note: Not sure what you mean by "your shank". I can only make the assumption that it was referring to them getting everything else that drops on your orb. If that's the case, you made a bad deal and shouldn't have used your orb. You will need to clarify this before continuing.