Is there any way we can just not do the merge thing?

[Volkai]

Well, folks, today is judgement day. Today Caitsith will be torn asunder by Ragnarok and all those memories will be gone with it! I just hope the server Ragnarok isn't very populated, because Caitsith still peaked around 2.5-3k people during prime time. I'm very upset about this merge.

And this is why you store your memories in your head instead of on a server.