I got my start in synergy because I wanted a teleport earring, so I understand your pain. However, your expectations are not realistic. Teleport earrings are not beginner recipes, and while it is possible to succeed at low level, it is unlikely. If you want to make your own earrings, you will need to level synergy to an appropriate level. Otherwise, you should ask someone with synergy skilled to operate the furnace for you - many of us would be happy to do so.

Here are a few pointers:
1) Do not buy fewell from the synergy engineer, unless you want to overpay.
2) Buy fewell from the AH, or make your own. If you make your own, consider buying the colored rocks at the Goldsmithing guild in Mhaura.
3) Silver earrings can be purchased cheaply from the jewlery store in Lower Jeuno.
4) Look at failed attempts of higher level recipes as time and gil spent leveling synergy, not as gil wasted on making a particular item.