Just so you know Tassidaru, I have started similar threads like this, asking SE if they can answer some stuff. They rarely do... And its a shame because, its a simple thing really. "We are thinking of this and this. We need more testing tho..." And you have an answer. But they seem to choose what they want to answer.
Things I would like to know.

Is SE satisfied with the way RDMs mele atm?
I know I am not... I would like significantly increase in the En-spells when I have Magic Attack gear on. Maybe even crit trait or Double Attack trait.

Is SE ok with all the things a RDM have to do in a party?
I know they want each job to be "busy", but with all the enfeebles, Enhanching spells, Curings, there is not much room for Meleing. This could be helped by giving use Hastega and Refreshga. When people hear: RDM-mele, they think... "LOL! Lets get a SAM instead" There is nothing wrong with meleing at the same time as you are Enfeebeling, Curing and buffing, but then the problem comes again that you dont get get TP and dont do any dammage cos your sword never hits due to all the other stuff ur suppose to do.

Another thing that could help this is a combination of Enfeebles. Since RDMs is a master of Enfeebeling, maybe its time that they got fused Enfeebels. Like, a spell that gives both Paralyze and Slow, lets call it Paralow (just for fun). This could also help our meleing process^_-

There is so much I want answerd, but I dont wanna make a "Wall-of-text" and scare people away from thread:P