NEW TO FFXI - LOOKING FOR GUIDANCE

[Ruvion]

Best advice I can give is that it really doesn't matter what server you start out on but try to persuade a friend to join the game with you at the same time, if you don't already know someone that plays that is. This way you will have someone to do everything with as you get further into the game. Keep in mind that this game is an MMO so half the fun is playing with others. It probably wouldn't hurt to shout in your home nation asking for some help. Just don't ask for money or items because no one likes that. You might come across a vet that is willing to show you the ropes, or even a few other new players. You can pool your money together and start an ls for other new members to join. Post your new ls in the forums here or on ffxiah.com and start recruiting. Like yourself, there are still new people out there and are looking for others in the same situation. Another good thing to do when starting out is to /sea all 1-10 and send some /tells. You might find some new people starting out like yourself and you can work together.

Also, I know alot of people are a fan of wiki and google and I am too. But, to age myself, when I first started there was no wiki so I got that players guide from brady games. I found it to be extremely helpful with explaining the basics of each job, spells, gear and weapons. It gave a list of the missions up to rank 5 for each nation, as well as quests. I know it's very out of date now but I would still recommend that you pick it up if you can and use it to help you start your journey throughout vana'diel.