I mean, they're both solo games really at this point. That said, FFXIV is huge on community, just not in the same places as you would expect. in FFXI, the sense of community came from the grinding and content we all did together. in FFXIV, most of the community interaction takes place outside of the content- Musical performances, "brothels," just hanging out in your friends' or guilds' estate halls, etc.
Whether you loved the crab grinding here or you love the.... after hours entertainment over there, I'm not one to judge.
