I know it's been beaten to death but...

[Reiii]

Yes, this is another race/gender topic to add to this forum I'm afraid.

I've noticed most players who want it do so because they aren't happy with the race they choose or just want something new. But I have a different opinion on this you see. I've browsed through several topics made about this and didn't see anyone whom had my personal experiences. However, I've come to share this because I think it's a growing problem within this game ( However if this specific thing I'm going to bring up was already addressed I do apologize. )

Over the three and a half years I've played this game I've played as a Female Elvaan and it's become an inconvenience. I love playing as this race but you see, the problem I've been having for the past several years was sexual harassment. I had several friends who played as female characters who have also experienced this problem...

Not a day goes by where I don't wish I could magically change my Elvaan to a male to prevent this from happening. I truly love this game and I do like the race I'm playing as and I've gotten way too far to just start a new character. I just wish that there was a way, any way, to change a characters gender because I am utterly disgusted by how some male players treat me. I don't even care if they made the transaction cost as much as $50, I would pay it.

I'm sorry for spamming this forum about another topic in regards to this but I figured I would shed some light on the darker side of this as I had not seen it brought up.

[Gokku]

silly woman theres not girls on the internet, just tell them how hung you are or stop flaunting your sexuality problem solved

[Atomic_Skull]

Yes, this is another race/gender topic to add to this forum I'm afraid.

I've noticed most players who want it do so because they aren't happy with the race they choose or just want something new. But I have a different opinion on this you see. I've browsed through several topics made about this and didn't see anyone whom had my personal experiences. However, I've come to share this because I think it's a growing problem within this game ( However if this specific thing I'm going to bring up was already addressed I do apologize. )

Over the three and a half years I've played this game I've played as a Female Elvaan and it's become an inconvenience. I love playing as this race but you see, the problem I've been having for the past several years was sexual harassment. I had several friends who played as female characters who have also experienced this problem...

Not a day goes by where I don't wish I could magically change my Elvaan to a male to prevent this from happening. I truly love this game and I do like the race I'm playing as and I've gotten way too far to just start a new character. I just wish that there was a way, any way, to change a characters gender because I am utterly disgusted by how some male players treat me. I don't even care if they made the transaction cost as much as $50, I would pay it.

I'm sorry for spamming this forum about another topic in regards to this but I figured I would shed some light on the darker side of this as I had not seen it brought up.

My bullshit detector is going off.

[Rambus]

you guys are mean -.-

I can see the issue with this and like i said in other threads SE should be like wow here, more ways to make money. Paid race/ sex/ server changes, more ways to make money ( though se got on for server already)

[Atomic_Skull]

you guys are mean -.-

I can see the issue with this and like i said in other threads SE should be like wow here, more ways to make money. Paid race/ sex/ server changes, more ways to make money ( though se got on for server already)

Yeah but that whole post just reeks of manure. Op is trying to convince SE to change their stance by casting it as a sexual harrasement issue. It's obvious they spent a lot of time carefully wording that post and it just comes off as completely fake.

[Kagato]

But by some chance it's legit, there's a simple solution.

/blacklist add <name>

PROBLEM SOLVED!

[Reiii]

This post is legit, it's not fake at all. Also it's awkward to blist others when they take the time to get friendly with you before suddenly acting like a scumbag. I can't count how many guys I hit it off with on this game only to out of no where act disgusting towards me. I have indeed blisted people before however and honestly I can blist all I want but it still leaves me with a sick feeling at the end of the day.

[Kagato]

Yes. It's really hard to blist people who turn a 180 OUT OF NOWHERE and start having cyber sex with you in /tell messages out of nowhere.

That is what they're doing, right? If they're just winking or being flirty and you call them scumbags for that then you should consider a future of loneliness.

I mean really, how hard is it to tell someone no then blist them when they don't stop? I don't care if they were nice to you at the beginning. Still, unless every guy you meet is trying to cyber you instantly, there's no reason for alarm. Ever. And if they DO try and do that, maybe you should stop flaunting your gamer girl status around like a trophy.


This basically sums up how I feel about this topic:
http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view/563041

[Rambus]

Yeah but that whole post just reeks of manure. Op is trying to convince SE to change their stance by casting it as a sexual harrasement issue. It's obvious they spent a lot of time carefully wording that post and it just comes off as completely fake.

should be changed regardless of reason they need the extra revenue

[Reiii]

Yes. It's really hard to blist people who turn a 180 OUT OF NOWHERE and start having cyber sex with you in /tell messages out of nowhere.

That is what they're doing, right? If they're just winking or being flirty and you call them scumbags for that then you should consider a future of loneliness.

I mean really, how hard is it to tell someone no then blist them when they don't stop? I don't care if they were nice to you at the beginning. Still, unless every guy you meet is trying to cyber you instantly, there's no reason for alarm. Ever. And if they DO try and do that, maybe you should stop flaunting your gamer girl status around like a trophy.


This basically sums up how I feel about this topic:
http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view/563041

The reason it's difficult to blist some of them is due to the fact that some of us have genuinely gotten along and they've helped me a lot. There's a guilt factor to it because of this. Getting along with someone wonderfully and then having them act inappropriately towards you is difficult to handle, it feels surreal almost, you sit and wonder if this person really just said these nasty things to you. It's hard to take action when you want to remain friends with some of these people but feel unsure if they'll speak to you in such a way again. I hope you can better understand now that I explained it better.

Also, I normally don't tell people my gender at all, I let them assume. S,o I don't really flaunt my gamer girl status around as you think I do.