Here's an example that may be unique to Valefor. In the NA community, I'd say we're generally months behind the really strong linkshells on other servers with more hardcore endgame communities. Basically, we have 2 NA linkshells that are capable of farming Aeonic weapons. We had a 3rd LS recently come back to the game from a long break; my hope is that they find success and start farming some Aeonics of their own. As I haven't experienced a larger server, I can't compare but I imagine the community is a lot more tight-knit and everybody knows everybody to a much higher degree. I live in Hawaii and I can definitely appreciate that (as the saying goes, "it's a small island"), although I acknowledge that it's not for everybody. People who burn their bridges leave. People who want gear faster than the server can provide it also leave. That's okay.
Even though the NA community is small, the JP community is both strong and numerous. This means that a lot of the multi-player aspects of the server are still quite functional, such as the maintenance of blessings (not all the time though) and AH supply/demand.
Yes, I'm sure you'll say Asura is just like that except there are more people to do things. Maybe? But maybe not.
Hey now, only one person resorted to posting memes in this thread. If you're going to try and keep the discourse at a certain level, then check yourself.
I'm not making the claim that there's some things you can necessarily do on a smaller server that would be impossible on a larger server. Again, please, please go back to the first post I made in this thread that started this discussion.
May not. As in, there may be people who prefer a different server.