shizz96,

Please keep in mind that the four expansions (Rise of the Zilart, Chains of Promathia, Treasures of Aht Urhgan, and Wings of the Goddess) must be registered to the PlayOnline account in question, as well as installed on the platform you are trying to log in on.

The add-on packs should be installed as part of the normal FINAL FANTASY XI update. If you have not done so yet, please ensure that FINAL FANTASY XI has been updated. If they still are not installed properly after updating, you will unfortunately need to uninstall and reinstall FINAL FANTASY XI.

As for Wings of the Goddess, you mention that you installed the expansion on your Playstation 3, which would be the Playstation 2 version. You will need to obtain a copy of the Xbox360 version of Wings of the Goddess in order to install that expansion on the Xbox 360.