I know that, once upon a time, SE had stated their intent was for R/M gear to be something that was rare.
However these items, Relics especially, are common now. I don't have a problem with this! I am saddened by the requirement to have that gear for clearing any endgame content. If you are a PLD with Aegis or fully upgraded Ochain, then "{No Thanks}." If I had spent some time work to get an Ajax, shouldn't that also suffice until I am able to get the former?
I feel as though it is not only the playerbase, but the content that is being released that caters more towards this attitude. Certain R/M/E pieces are asked for, and of course for cookie-cutter parties.
You say create your own party? Let's go back to the PLD example: people may decline party invites or leave the party after inspecting what you have and believing that just because you don't have the best-of-the-best that you simply don't stand a chance at any content.
Why are certain pieces of gear from latest events simply not good enough? Or not at least worth trying? Just curious.
Also in line with this is the scaling of player accuracy to mob evasion. Does anyone else think it's gone a bit extreme once past 99 and into the item level range? Or is just fine and I need to learn how to stack +acc and food better?