I'm with the "Don't like it? Then don't do it" crowd.
This game has so many other things that you can do that I am utterly surprised that you anger yourself over such a minor aspect.

I'm not capped yet, and I don't care.
I too dislike grinding so I only do it when I have to.
As others have said, the job points also come from doing content, that's where most of mine come from and I'm perfectly fine with that.