I feel you want way more functionality then they will ever give and need to refocus on simple requests:

1) We need a high-end acc/ rng acc/ mg acc attachments
2) Our pets have awful hp/survivability/cant receive group buffs (something similar to drg buff sharing would be ideal, as well as being able to be hit with ae cures, high end -dt attachments would help too)
3) Give us the ability to disable weapon skills we dont want our pets to use before we summon them so we dont have to worry about maneuvers triggering the wrong ws.
4) fix pet ai, dont make us use an attachment that fixes ai (tactical processor II???? we dont even know what I does!)

Not really gonna touch the rest of your post, a lot of it makes no sense. Harle is going from h2h to blunt, and i dont see why he needs range AND dual wield AND more magic.