[Dev1235] Job Adjustments

[Afania]

Because it is your behavior I am talking about. Excluding me from your group because I wanted to use my sword and shield instead of a great sword is what you said you would do.

And I don't know these others you are talking about and they aren't here to defend themselves. So it's impossible for me to direct my argument at them. All I can say to you is you shouldn't let others people dictate how you treat people. You should treat them as you feel you should. Because peer pressure can have nasty consequences and people should rise above it.

This isn't just "peer pressure", having expectation is how rl works. If I'm not contributing enough in a company, my boss would fire me. If I'm not providing good service to my client, my client look for someone else for the service. I'm not sure why'd FFXI be any different since it's still played by real players.

Again, if you don't want expectations, go play with friends or offline game. If you work with strangers, it's normal to have expectations.

I also don't undersatnd why it's such a big deal that other groups exclude a sword and shield DD in their group. Is it really that much to ask to unequip a shield? I give instructions a lot more than "don't equip a shield" all the time, if you refuse to follow this simple direction, how'd you follow other directions?

...You two are rather enamored with the last word, aren't you? 10+ pages of derailment off-track and yet you two both vie for the same stupid point. If it matters so much, take it to a messenger or something, don't clutter up more threads with your stubborn refusal to budge. You both have opinions, and that's that. What happened to the "Job Adjustments" thread?

This forum has no PM function though.......Although Dale is welcomed to PM my FFXIAH account if he wants to continue.