Quote Originally Posted by Dale View Post
It's irrelevant to what I was saying. Maybe not to what she was saying. That's what you aren't understanding.

It doesn't matter to me if that person is assisting her with the possibility of getting something out of it or not. I feel she should still appreciate that assistance rather or not it is as efficient as possible. But she doesn't and views it as punishment instead.

That is the real disagreement in this debate. It has nothing to do with what the word help really means or what scenarios she is willing to appreciate less-than-perfect assistance in and which scenarios she isn't. That's just a side show to the real disagreement between us.
Well then, I guess the only thing left for you both to do is agree to disagree. Neither of you will change your POV (or each others) -- that much has been made blatantly clear -- so why keep this going? You've both stated your opinions and argued them thoroughly, so there's really nothing else you can do.