So all you say is - cause the game has to load the whole character while the player is exzessive gearchanging - it's the games fault that you have to use 3rd party tools (btw. they are forbidden) or have let to die someone cause you'r not willing to use a workaround?

Sorry to say this again - but it's your playstile that didn't adept to the game. You can't drive on the right side while everyone is forced to use the left side by law. Learn to deal with it but don't blame anyone else but you.