I helped over 250 people get to sea on my server, 150 or so to sky, 50 or so through ToAU, 20 to NI floor 100. And very few of those people ever helped me in return. I would shout for simple things like Shadow Lord back under cap. And these people I helped would /t me they would help for gil...
I know what its like but In return I also got an insane amount of help from my server in getting all my blu spells again pre cap increase in 2 days. Occasionally even now someone will /t my shout and help me for helping them out 8 years ago.
While it would be nice to get a reward in return I just recently helped a RL friend of mine finish all of CoP RoZ and Windy Missions through rank 10 in 2 weeks and he is still only level 66 RDM. We did all of Bastok two days ago in a single push and probably will do Sandy next week. Its all really easy. I do feel for the guys that don't have help or can get it Ive been there.
Every single one of the original posters wants are easily solo'd at 90.
As someone put it to me one day while I was complaining of lack of help
No one forced me to help them No one forced me to do anything. No one forced me to MPK them while xping or killing a NM :P lol.
If the were to add gil or xp it would inevitably become a balance or inflation issue.