I can see both overall points made here. If you are able to be part of a community that is great. You probably have more time to invest in the relationship building that ffxi has done a great job enabling us to do. However, others that do not have the time to invest in relationships, i.e. "community" rely on the ability to just log in for an hour or 2 and be able to be a part of something that is fulfilling and rewarding. I don't know how your servers are looking but, if you were on a server like Leviathan (a dead zone) and tried to shout for members or join a pick up group for delve you will be quick to realize that it might be a 2-5 hour investment. Anyways both points are valid.