Personally I've just learned to ignore people who think their perspective is absolute... sure I'll talk with em but gah.....

Outside of that Deamon I play FF just to have fun it's one of my luxuries in life I pay for. FF has been with me since 7 and I <3 it! I feel your pain however I still play it because it's a game... to hell with getting the gear as fast as possible... specially when everyone tries to be carbon copies....