So I've been playing since '08, but I have NEVER seen such a thing as these leaders for "Even Linkshells" who are unreasonable, impolite, egotistical ***holes. My anger stems from how poorly I've seen good, honest people get talked like trash by a person with a big flashy shell and they were only linkpearls. I can name off quite a few from my trips across Phoenix and Ragnarok, Demon will know a few of them.
My point is: why do people allow these jerks to behave this way? Just on my time on Ragnarok I've dismantled a linkshell by getting the lower members to leave (truly they should have, because the sack holders and the shell were never contributing to helping the lower players catch up, and I've been booted several times before my friend daringly gave me a new pearl to encourage them to leave the linkshell. Needless to say I might be leaving Ragnarok once my world transfer becomes available again (Oh wait I'm just going to XIV^.^)
So we come down to the prime question: Would you rather be in a linkshell that does events time to time and has a friendly atmosphere but not as active as an event shell, OR join one that is more dedicated to events -but- you have to play a job you don't want to play, deal with someone talking down to you for not making it to an event based on real life commitments (I've ran into many people like this)