The reason alot of people are fed up with how you post is you respond what it seems like every thread out there usually disagreeing with the position. This is what is getting you attacked.
I don't "usually disagree." I disagree with things that i think are bad ideas or unnecessary. If someone posts a good idea or makes an intelligent comment I happily support it- and in such cases, usually with a 'Like' more than an actual comment.

And your defintion of white knighting is taking to the extreme,
No, it's not taking to an extreme. That's what white knighting is. If you're not defending something, you can't be white knighting. That's what a white knight does, hence the meaning of the phrase.

Responding to each and every small change that someone wants with a "well they dont have to fix that" is what annoys people, and brands you as a white knight.
Again you say this, but I don't actually do that.

Stop doing that and respond to only major issues with a dissenting opinion and i bet alot of those attacks stop.
In other words, I have to either not comment, or blindly agree with everything I see in order to not be branded. Got it.

Blindly agreeing is just as bad as white knighting. *You* along with everyone else here needs to stop acting as if I disagree just to disagree- this is not the case, has never been the case, and will never be the case.