Waypoints

[Xantavia]

Mog house >> Windurst waters >> Travel about as far away from mog house as you can in that zone >> expend cruor to warp to a zone outside jeuno >> run to jeuno >> run through that entire zone >> zone into Ru'Lude gardens >> waypoint

I found your problem, you aren't taking advantage of all the ways to get to Jeuno. Try this one next time.

Mog house >> Windurst Woods >> Warp to Whitegate >> Warp to Ru'Lude Gardens.